Message from @Lex

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2017-10-05 10:07:26 UTC  

than one who's squandered away her youth chasing a fruitless career

2017-10-05 10:07:34 UTC  

Well the times have changed, and clearly you don't value the person you are marrying outside of their fertility.

2017-10-05 10:07:34 UTC  

striker how old are you

2017-10-05 10:07:39 UTC  

im in my 20s

2017-10-05 10:07:46 UTC  

why arent you married yet then

2017-10-05 10:07:49 UTC  

>times have changed its the current year!

2017-10-05 10:07:59 UTC  

I don't know I mean I feel I can offer more to life than that

2017-10-05 10:08:00 UTC  

damn this guy really is a psych major

2017-10-05 10:08:01 UTC  

No, times have changed and women are in the job market.

2017-10-05 10:08:03 UTC  

kids is a big part

2017-10-05 10:08:07 UTC  

but I am a smart person

2017-10-05 10:08:11 UTC  

I know I have a lot to offer

2017-10-05 10:08:20 UTC  

Lexi, I'm a man, it's socially and biologically acceptable for me to get married in my 30s

2017-10-05 10:08:20 UTC  

I am just not sure of my path I guess..

2017-10-05 10:08:29 UTC  

Men cannot do it alone anymore, and women perhaps undertaking jobs might price the men out. But that's the importance of finding someone who can fight aside you

2017-10-05 10:08:40 UTC  

Not someone who sucks the life out of you with their persistent need to be fed and kept alive

2017-10-05 10:08:58 UTC  

women need to consider 9-3 jobs and self employment so they can give children the correct attention

2017-10-05 10:09:02 UTC  

a woman who has worked is extremely valuable

2017-10-05 10:09:24 UTC  

women can work, nobody is arguing against that

2017-10-05 10:09:33 UTC  

stop creating this strawman

2017-10-05 10:09:44 UTC  

teaching supports that so its a good choice nicole

2017-10-05 10:09:45 UTC  

but children and strong families are necessary for a strong society

2017-10-05 10:10:25 UTC  

What constitutes familial strength? Linear gender roles? Who's to say that the homebound mother doesn't coddle the child into dependency and incompetency come adolescence?

2017-10-05 10:10:29 UTC  

and reinforcing family roles that have worked for centuries is how you create strong families

2017-10-05 10:10:53 UTC  

Who is to say that the family roles of yesteryear do not apply when both parents work?

2017-10-05 10:11:06 UTC  

There is NO evidence of that. None.

2017-10-05 10:11:20 UTC  

>trump

2017-10-05 10:11:22 UTC  

>mr. trump

2017-10-05 10:11:26 UTC  

>president trump

2017-10-05 10:11:39 UTC  

>***PRESIDENT*** trump

2017-10-05 10:11:46 UTC  

And that distortion is destructive. Because I know plenty of young women who just give up on work and become desperate for a man to knock them up and be stuck with them.

2017-10-05 10:11:50 UTC  

i see a pattern

2017-10-05 10:11:56 UTC  

Ambition in moratorium, it's so disgusting and pitiful.

2017-10-05 10:11:58 UTC  

>***__OVERLORD__*** trump

2017-10-05 10:12:04 UTC  

And women should feel worth MORE than that.

2017-10-05 10:12:14 UTC  

You're getting me so upset, lol.

2017-10-05 10:13:20 UTC  

yeah you're a typical psych major kid, all feels, this is fruitless

2017-10-05 10:13:43 UTC  

nicole, you'll probably be happier being a wife and mother

2017-10-05 10:14:15 UTC  

if you go switch fields, do something in stem

2017-10-05 10:14:19 UTC  

otherwise, have a family

2017-10-05 10:14:39 UTC  

Ironically this debate reminds me of the guy that recently just broke up with me he offered to pay for everything while i stayed home and yes I believe in raising kids but honestly.. how he worded that really bothered me because I feel I should not just have someone pay for my life for me but instead help my partner out.. I know that sounds cliche