Message from @Lex
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No, don't slave away to the biological imperative. You'll end up with someone terrible for you
what terrible advice lmao
Be productive and be a force to be reckoned with, find someone who can accept that and be a partner to you
very typical of a psych major
well what is everyone's advice on trying to figure out what you want to do?
These oldstyle conservatives always try to reduce women to appendages of the male stature and I find that to be so repulsive.
not trying to ask life advice but you know. .
many women will be much happier stying home and raising children nicole
Life is not about happiness
Life is about enduring pain in your striving for achievement
sure, women go through the pain of child birth
And I'd rather marry someone who has endured a goood amount of suffering for her goals than someone who waited for a man to wish them away
Wisk*
but in terms after you reach those achievements doesn't it envoke happiness?
Sure, that's what positive emotion is. It's the result/reward for achievement
id rather marry a young woman in her prime age for bearing children
than one who's squandered away her youth chasing a fruitless career
Well the times have changed, and clearly you don't value the person you are marrying outside of their fertility.
striker how old are you
im in my 20s
>times have changed its the current year!
I don't know I mean I feel I can offer more to life than that
damn this guy really is a psych major
No, times have changed and women are in the job market.
kids is a big part
but I am a smart person
I know I have a lot to offer
Lexi, I'm a man, it's socially and biologically acceptable for me to get married in my 30s
I am just not sure of my path I guess..
Men cannot do it alone anymore, and women perhaps undertaking jobs might price the men out. But that's the importance of finding someone who can fight aside you
Not someone who sucks the life out of you with their persistent need to be fed and kept alive
women need to consider 9-3 jobs and self employment so they can give children the correct attention
a woman who has worked is extremely valuable
women can work, nobody is arguing against that
stop creating this strawman
teaching supports that so its a good choice nicole
but children and strong families are necessary for a strong society
What constitutes familial strength? Linear gender roles? Who's to say that the homebound mother doesn't coddle the child into dependency and incompetency come adolescence?
and reinforcing family roles that have worked for centuries is how you create strong families
Who is to say that the family roles of yesteryear do not apply when both parents work?