Message from @Lex

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2017-10-05 10:04:59 UTC  

No, don't slave away to the biological imperative. You'll end up with someone terrible for you

2017-10-05 10:05:16 UTC  

what terrible advice lmao

2017-10-05 10:05:18 UTC  

Be productive and be a force to be reckoned with, find someone who can accept that and be a partner to you

2017-10-05 10:05:19 UTC  

very typical of a psych major

2017-10-05 10:05:47 UTC  

well what is everyone's advice on trying to figure out what you want to do?

2017-10-05 10:05:54 UTC  

These oldstyle conservatives always try to reduce women to appendages of the male stature and I find that to be so repulsive.

2017-10-05 10:05:55 UTC  

not trying to ask life advice but you know. .

2017-10-05 10:06:00 UTC  

many women will be much happier stying home and raising children nicole

2017-10-05 10:06:11 UTC  

Life is not about happiness

2017-10-05 10:06:24 UTC  

Life is about enduring pain in your striving for achievement

2017-10-05 10:06:37 UTC  

sure, women go through the pain of child birth

2017-10-05 10:06:39 UTC  

And I'd rather marry someone who has endured a goood amount of suffering for her goals than someone who waited for a man to wish them away

2017-10-05 10:06:45 UTC  

Wisk*

2017-10-05 10:06:49 UTC  

but in terms after you reach those achievements doesn't it envoke happiness?

2017-10-05 10:07:05 UTC  

Sure, that's what positive emotion is. It's the result/reward for achievement

2017-10-05 10:07:11 UTC  

id rather marry a young woman in her prime age for bearing children

2017-10-05 10:07:26 UTC  

than one who's squandered away her youth chasing a fruitless career

2017-10-05 10:07:34 UTC  

Well the times have changed, and clearly you don't value the person you are marrying outside of their fertility.

2017-10-05 10:07:34 UTC  

striker how old are you

2017-10-05 10:07:39 UTC  

im in my 20s

2017-10-05 10:07:46 UTC  

why arent you married yet then

2017-10-05 10:07:49 UTC  

>times have changed its the current year!

2017-10-05 10:07:59 UTC  

I don't know I mean I feel I can offer more to life than that

2017-10-05 10:08:00 UTC  

damn this guy really is a psych major

2017-10-05 10:08:01 UTC  

No, times have changed and women are in the job market.

2017-10-05 10:08:03 UTC  

kids is a big part

2017-10-05 10:08:07 UTC  

but I am a smart person

2017-10-05 10:08:11 UTC  

I know I have a lot to offer

2017-10-05 10:08:20 UTC  

Lexi, I'm a man, it's socially and biologically acceptable for me to get married in my 30s

2017-10-05 10:08:20 UTC  

I am just not sure of my path I guess..

2017-10-05 10:08:29 UTC  

Men cannot do it alone anymore, and women perhaps undertaking jobs might price the men out. But that's the importance of finding someone who can fight aside you

2017-10-05 10:08:40 UTC  

Not someone who sucks the life out of you with their persistent need to be fed and kept alive

2017-10-05 10:08:58 UTC  

women need to consider 9-3 jobs and self employment so they can give children the correct attention

2017-10-05 10:09:02 UTC  

a woman who has worked is extremely valuable

2017-10-05 10:09:24 UTC  

women can work, nobody is arguing against that

2017-10-05 10:09:33 UTC  

stop creating this strawman

2017-10-05 10:09:44 UTC  

teaching supports that so its a good choice nicole

2017-10-05 10:09:45 UTC  

but children and strong families are necessary for a strong society

2017-10-05 10:10:25 UTC  

What constitutes familial strength? Linear gender roles? Who's to say that the homebound mother doesn't coddle the child into dependency and incompetency come adolescence?

2017-10-05 10:10:29 UTC  

and reinforcing family roles that have worked for centuries is how you create strong families

2017-10-05 10:10:53 UTC  

Who is to say that the family roles of yesteryear do not apply when both parents work?