Okay...

the issue is?

He starts cross-dressing, and enduring surgeries

Changing his hormones

Taking pills he should have to take

And he starts to throw away what it means to be "male".

Okay wait

So he places himself into this "female" mindset

before we go on lets define terms?

Alright

If that's okay with you?

WE use Male and Female to refer to biolgocial gender

Yes

and Man and WOman to refer to gender

I mean male and female to refer to biological sex

are you fine with this distinction?

Yes

okay keep going

jsut wanted to clarify that

He goes to a doctor

Or to a health practitioner

Or to a group that is meant to help females in society

Okay//

Medically-speaking, he will have to "pause" that mindset of being a female socially-speaking, and re-acknowledge he is a male biologically

No matter what surgeries he has done to his body and ect

That's like a bullet in the head

Fair enough

I know a lot of trans people feel that ay

way.

Because it's literally living his life thinking one way, and then having to enter into that stage of realization every single time he goes to a doctor

be it for a check-up

or a surgery

Or anything

Now

For the female groups

Sports, leadership, social gatherings ect

Many of the girls will not accept him

Many of these woman will dislike him

Why?

because these females had to live in a certain way

And all Phil had to do was go through surgeries and ect