Message from @Converted Weeb

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2018-01-28 22:48:55 UTC  

You see mothers are naturally more nurturing and kind than say fathers

2018-01-28 22:49:08 UTC  

Deller the difference is men are better at working while women are better at raising children.

2018-01-28 22:49:20 UTC  

My dad had me flipping tires at 8 while my mom was still tucking me in

2018-01-28 22:49:39 UTC  

with more nuance- there is a greater stimulatory effect on a child from having its mother around early on

2018-01-28 22:49:48 UTC  

Tell that to Zachary Turner

2018-01-28 22:50:00 UTC  

Mothers typically embody the empathy and care model for the child, whereas the father usually is supposed to represent a more ethic and authoritative one.

2018-01-28 22:50:18 UTC  

*Typically*, I want to emphasize.

2018-01-28 22:50:24 UTC  

Thats the thing

2018-01-28 22:50:26 UTC  

and show harshness

2018-01-28 22:50:41 UTC  

My father is a great man and one I want to be

2018-01-28 22:50:53 UTC  

but him taking the mother role would be so

2018-01-28 22:51:00 UTC  

Unorthodox

2018-01-28 22:51:09 UTC  

It would be ridiculous

2018-01-28 22:51:56 UTC  

So, one mother drugs her kid and jumps into the ocean, and suddenly mothers aren't naturally more empathetic and caring towards their children?

2018-01-28 22:52:18 UTC  

too much empathy imo

2018-01-28 22:52:32 UTC  

Thats called taking an outlier and extrapolating it out of proportion

2018-01-28 22:52:39 UTC  
2018-01-28 22:53:02 UTC  

eeyup.

2018-01-28 22:53:03 UTC  

Pro-choiceers do this a lot with rapes and the like

2018-01-28 22:53:39 UTC  

sexism is inherently supposed to be negative prejudiced, while saying asians are always good at math seems unfair, I dont think saying mothers are more caring to babies is what we want to call sexist

2018-01-28 22:54:23 UTC  

Asians are good at math seems more positive than negative

2018-01-28 22:54:50 UTC  

I mentioned it because it doesnt apply- if it is true its a cultural thing

2018-01-28 22:54:55 UTC  

sexism is based on biology

2018-01-28 22:55:33 UTC  

rather, people want it to be, but it shouldnt be

2018-01-28 22:56:57 UTC  

I never said the mother can’t be more empathetic. It’s almost like naturally assuming all mothers are more empathetic is just as irrational as assuming they’re not. Judge people individually, not as collectives

2018-01-28 22:57:16 UTC  

but we are going by facts

2018-01-28 22:57:30 UTC  

babies dont judge people individually lol

2018-01-28 22:57:31 UTC  

ok so

2018-01-28 22:57:39 UTC  

a lot of that list is "more time"

2018-01-28 22:57:43 UTC  

Females tend to be more geared towards helping the children

2018-01-28 22:57:51 UTC  

Except you’re not going by facts, you’re going by scientific assumptions

2018-01-28 22:57:55 UTC  

any of you chaps play besiege?

2018-01-28 22:58:01 UTC  
2018-01-28 22:58:46 UTC  

Just because the mother is more likely to be better suited to raise children in any given relationship, doesn’t make it true of every relationship

2018-01-28 22:58:53 UTC  

bottom line is that individual's personalities and motivations vary a LOT more than the average difference between men and women

2018-01-28 22:59:22 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/398973785426100234/407308702660689921/x3.bsg

2018-01-28 22:59:27 UTC  

a woman engineer that is dedicated and smart is more valuable to society than them spending most of their time taking care of children

2018-01-28 22:59:30 UTC  

best steam engine maker in the community

2018-01-28 22:59:43 UTC  

true and no one has ever said that a mother that feels like she doesnt want to have kids should have kids

2018-01-28 23:00:21 UTC  

the point was that a good mom is more stimulating for a young child than a good dad, on average