hahah i loved that one

Oh btw @crzmkr I just recalled you said you are from Norway

I have a friend from there

It's wierd how cultures work across boarders. Like i saw the black hiphop starts from my youth(DR.dre Eminem etc) as my rolemodels. As a white kid in norway without a father

Turnd me to the devil to know Jehova

And recently he told me a friend of his was killed by an arab immigrant 🙏🏻

I was allready there

Oh wth

Not good. Sad.

I wonder why

Yeah he didn’t mention actually, but I didn’t wanna press too much

Im going with jesse in that he hates his mother

This is more or less the war of our lifetimes I think it's developing into something quite big

Im with that!

The rightouss will not be silent for ever

💪🏻

It's allmost like God just went "Ok your been whining so long, you can have a go."

Seems like for quite a long time War has always been something that is done by armies and is happening remotely but now they're ordering delivery or something

True

Hm thats a thought

It's reminding me of World War II where there was a large-scale thinning of the numbers

Scary

It’s honestly scary when that happens

We need to remember its a spiritual battle

Oh ofc

As if we need to wright it into stone

"He he"

@Hake Just wanted to let you know 'hake' means chin in norwegian 😃

*bump*

Haha thanks @crzmkr

Hellooooo everyone welcome thisss isss children of the lieeee and rebuilding the man hellooo

Lol?

a mind-blowing testimony
https://youtu.be/DakEcY7Z5GU

Why do I hate my mother?

@Klipkop (Clip-Cop) because she has made you in her image.

go here and get all these, put them on your mp3 player or your phone https://archive.org/details/Jesse.Lee.Peterson.Church

I will too

^

The David Wood testimony video was amazin’!! Thanks 🙏 for posting brother. @J_G_

It was shockin’ to say the least.

I would say that David is a man who has been rebuilt

What can men do to get more spiritually in-line, and accept the fact of death?

Get scared

boo

@noobpocket have a near death experience... That will do it my friend

well done

lets see who wants who

im roling a joint

I've had a few near death experiences, but the acceptance of death is difficult.

https://youtu.be/IZCgxmD7t04

@noobpocket youve been brought back by cpr? Did u see the tunnel like i did

It is remarkable to consider that white people don’t even need to be racist anymore. The left has successfully trained blacks to do it on their behalf. (Candace Owens, Twitter,.. 10hours ago!)

Owens has spunk. When they try to muzzle her, it just pisses her off and spurs her into action.

I love Owens so much

Oh I love that woman.

https://youtu.be/sSSqc1qG238

August is!!!

Men’s history month!!!

-Rebuilding the man

https://youtu.be/o0Y_fGcmBQs

<:redpilled:466843692108349441> 😍

Repost from general discussion: I forgave my mother today. She said she “accepts my apology “. Interesting because my forgiveness wasn’t an apology for her to accept. I think that I failed because she thinks that I’m the one who’s wrong because I held anger and resentment towards her. I honestly don’t know how to proceed from here. Do I go through the process again to explain she’s the one who caused me to be that way since she didn’t get it the first time?

I see by your post in the Q 4 Jesse room you understand that she is in a fallen state.

@GIDEON 4000 you shouldn't be feeling that you need a reaction from her. it means she still controls you.

forgiving her should be a feeling in you, and just saying the words doesn't equal you actually forgiving. I can't speak for Jesse, but I believe he would say that as soon as you forgive, then God automatically forgives you.

Here is a very thorough and technical treatise on celibacy, from the male perspective, and it can help those who would like to avoid the common pitfalls that can put us into a fallen state. If you have a Christian alternative, link it! http://www.dlshq.org/download/brahmacharya.pdf

What have you done to better yourself today?

went to the GNc and got some preworkout, BCAA's, and protein powder. Got home meditated and winding down before I wind up for the week.

@J_G_ I have a book downloaded on my laptop called “from sex to super consciousness” by Osho, Indian political speaker and spiritual. You talked about before about Hinduism and vedas so maybe you’d be interested. I’d be happy to email to you if you want 💛

I’ve figured out my goals, and I’m not committing myself to action. It’s 7 am, and I’m going to go meditate and shower! Going to continue on the path.

As of right now, I’d like to thank Jesse and BOND, because I’ve gotten my life in order. I obtained a new job and I’m moving out into my own place. I’m going to start school again in January, as well. As soon as I’m used to my job I’ll be getting a gym membership and I’ll be working on myself, grinding. As men we have to sweat for what we have and earn. We can’t be held back by our fear. Thank you @JesseLee for your wisdom and for helping put me on the right path.

@noobpocket thats amazing - thanks for sharing your story - congrats on the new job

@noobpocket so proud and happy for you. I am very impressed.

#rebuildingtheman.

We need more success stories and testimonies. Don’t be shy folks

@Hake

@noobpocket hey man, its great to hear about a brother doing well. If you can, enroll in a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu academy; or any martial art. It fosters camaraderie, self-confidence, and life long friendships. You meet people that are practicing a beautiful but challenging art and you're learning together. You advancing together. You'll have stories to tell! Trust me. I haven't met anyone that didn't like it yet. Continue making progress brother. We all have your back.

great input walter, I appreciate the brotherhood here.

Happy Men's History month!!

IT IS MENS HISTORY MONTH!!!

🎉 I love men! 🎈

Can’t say that too loud tho

I love being a man. Grateful God made me a man.

good morning, baby stepping this new medium: discord, to many moving pieces 😃

hey all happy mans history month.

HAPPY MENS HISTORY MONTH!!!

Heya

I had some questions I think could get some help with 😅

Do all men need to be manly men?

Like don't guys like hanging out with cuter less imposing guys? Or do you think they don't make good company?

I like going downtown with my tougher friends because I can just chill and not worry about getting jumped or harassed. It's just easier since I'm pretty small and weak. I think it's smart.

Some men are more poetic and weak like Jacob in the Bible. Nothing really wrong with it. A beta is a man who is Spiritually weak, not physically.

My two cents

O o

I thought hanging out with a manlier crowd would help me be more manly, but it kind of makes me feel effeminate instead since they treat me like a beta. Is there anything I can do?

@aeriey get these mp3's , they'll give spiritual support. I think that's going to be 90% of it. https://archive.org/details/Jesse.Lee.Peterson.Church

@aeriey if this has to do with you possibly being an introvert, then I can answer that being an introvert doesn’t make you a beta male. It’s spiritually & emotionally that does.

Eheh, it's a little more risque than just that. I don't want to put anyone off by sharing the inhibitions I wrecklessly indulge in

Just be comfortable with yourself man. Don’t be caught in your thoughts. When you overthink situations you already defeat and deflate yourself, just be natural and let the “scary” stuff slide off you like it has no effect

Idk what your definition of manly is then. But that sounds kinda scary. Men who are rowdy, drink & indulge in morally unacceptable behavior are not manly, just godless.

I think I'm doing something morally wrong, probably beyond redemption. Oh well

What are you doing here then?

Manly men are not immoral so I guess you have your answer

@aeriey are you going to take steps to a better frame of mind or are you going to just stay on your course?

I'm always trying to improve myself and become better! Just that since I'm not very religiously knowledge beyond my own interpretation, I don't know if I'm a sinner or a good person, or a heathen. And what things I should and shouldn't do. As long as I'm good to others it doesn't matter what I indulge in as long as it doesn't hurt anyone right? I'd really appreciate being corrected if I'm off 😅

I really connected with Jesse Lee's interview videos and really feel like I understand how men need to be leaders and how toxic the slut culture is, so I want to leave behind the bad stuff and condition myself to behave like a proper man. Really I just wish I had some one to talk to who understands what it's like to give into dark desires and how to break away from them

Anyway I'm rambling and embarrassing myself 😏

You said "I don't know if I'm a sinner or a good person", but you then say "as long as i'm good to others it doesn't matter what I indulge in as long as it doesn't hurt anyone" so how can you know if what you are doing is good or bad? --that kind of logical error a sign that you need Church with Jesse Peterson. That's why I gave you the Archive.org link to Jesse's Church service. Find one with a title that attracts you and start from there.

That belief that as long as you’re good to others then it doesn’t matter what you indulge in is a typical leftist view. You need morals and values in order to be an upstanding man. So yes i recommend church with Jesse whether you’re religious or not

how do you guys deal with situation that frighten you like for example I have a little problem with water in my appartement and I am afraid that it might turn into a whole big thing. How can I deal with that fear?

@Lugos can you be a bit more specific, what's wrong with your water?

well there might be some kind of leak and maybe the whole wall needs to be ripped open

It's probably a stupid example but it is more in general about how to deal with fear

I just forgave my mother. I was shaking in my boots. Over the phone cause of Atlantic ocean being in the way. Father is next on the list.

congrats J_G keep going bruh

let us know how it went

i've been wanting to forgive my mother but i cant think of any reason.. should i do it anyway? if she asks why and i dont have any reason, would that be reasonable? i dont fear or hate my mother, do i still need to forgive her?

You should still forgive her @TheSatireGames

What have you done to better yourselves today, men?

silent prayer i think is the main thing that helps better myself. learning to tune into god. with each prayer i get stronger it feels like.

well i shouldnt say feel. but seems. i dont take opinion but i merely watch. and somehow i get strength from that

@TheSatireGames do it only if you see a reason to forgive her.

How can you forgive her if you don't know why?

thank you for responding. i love your show. i do however need to forgive my father for sure.

I also forgave my mom because of how I was brought up.

well to be fair this is generla discussion

no topic

nice try though

this chat says rebuilding the man

*What have you done to better yourself this week?*

finished a couple audio books, watched jesse's show, lifted weights, ran 50+ miles, and did the silent prayer.

@noobpocket Asked for my Mom's forgiveness and called my biological father. I hope to hear from him soon. Also, working out, praying, and giving thanks.

1. Silent Prayer 2. Rebuilding hard copy design portfolio

Good work, guys!

Keep it up.

🤝💪

Rise and grind brothers and sisters

You know me. I’ve been at work for 54 minutes already.

Das rite starting your day early is where it’s at.

I love getting up early

Feels like I spent the day wisely and so much more time

I feel horrible if I even wake up at 11 am

sleeping pas 5, what's that like?

^this

Hi

elLO

TIM pic making me cook jail house ramen

Hahahah jailhouse ramen is GOOD

Lol

I actually would like to wake up at 5 or anytime before sunrise but I can never make it that early unless I have to

6-7 these days

https://youtu.be/fdI7UBpoLkg

That reminds me of JLP

The daughter is spoiled

That's my take

What do you think

@Stopvegans She reminds me of me.

My father abandoned me at the age of 2. I never got pregnant or anything but a father should be there for his daughter to build up her foundation. Teach her to be aware of men.

Did he abandon her? From what he said it sounds like he was there.

But i skipped some of it

But yes fathers should teach daughters about men who want to use them

I learned in church thank God

https://youtu.be/hISz8zqkv-8

This guy gave this great story to me

@Stopvegans No he abandoned her.

Oh ok

When I was a teen, they taught me in church don't have sex before marriage

This one guy said you are a rose

Every time you do something further with a man you take a petal

He said after doing further and further that rose is what you give your husband

It stuck with me

Well, if that is the case, if so many petals are taken off, you can't grow them back.

I still went too far when i was dating

I let guys go too far

So you are now an incomplete rose for your future husband.

Well I'm not sure how true it is

But its a good way to make teens practice abstinence

Worked on me

I feel like your situation is different from the girls. Her dad was more present than yours was.

Did your mom run off your Dad

I grew up in a baptist church but didn't learn that.

My father only came to visit me ONCE. During that visit, he said to me, "I'm not your father, I am just your friend, okay? I am not your daddy." She told him to leave. She did everything she could. He treated her like crap.

He was an older married man where even his sons tried to mess with her.

She never talked about him to me or said anything bad about him.

I tried finding your call that day but I only found it in the description on the video. I looked forva while but gave up when i couldn't find it.

Let me see if I can find it.

He's 80, right?

I think its in the middle but i still couldn't find it

Have you gone & forgiven him yet

@Stopvegans that rose stuff is beautiful 💜

@Deleted User I feel for you. My father is more a stranger than anything. In the case with him, *some* of it may have been what Jesse says, that he couldn’t stand my mom... but at the same time, my mom always encouraged him to come see me growing up, she never tried to keep me away yet he always chose not to. Meanwhile he was with a new woman since I was 2 and was taking care of her sons and being a father to them. It doesn’t make any sense

amazing

I have to fly to Iowa to forgive my mother - haven't seen her since I was 6 years old - although I saw her once when I was 18 but it was very brief

@Szayel's Pooppion It does but it happens. Like Jesse says, these men are in a fallen state. He still hasn't contacted me back so I will have to make sure I have the right phone number and call him one last time.

@Orlando That's awesome. How was that experience?

Havent done it yet - hope to do it within next year or so @Deleted User

OHHHH I'm sorry @Orlando, must've misread your sentence there.

@Stopvegans Yes he is 80. I tried calling him and left him a voicemail. I already came to terms with it in my heart but I want to talk to him about it.

@Deleted User no problemo, also have two half brothers there that i dont know

I’m also trying to see if I can get in contact with my dad to forgive him, but his side of the family are mostly drug addicts...(he was) I don’t really know how to get into contact so I’ll hope someone reaches out to me

@Orlando That's amazin'! I have half siblings too. My Mom told me one of them was in the Army.

@Szayel's Pooppion I am planning on searching his name in the database and finding a phone number or address.

Good luck 🍀 it’s that you’re putting the effort out for it that matters

What have you done to better yourself this week?

Tried to keep myself consistent with silent prayer as much as I could. Journaled as well. Mindful of my thoughts and emotions, if I found myself dwelling on past issues and things I only let myself stay in it for alittle while before pulling myself out & back into the moment

Anybody else's people hate them after they forgave one of the parents?

No luckily

I got a text from my mom saying I have betrayed her. She didnt answer the phone. My sister spent most of the day harrassing my wife bc she found out I contacted my father and forgave him. I called her and told her she has : "got to stop, and while I have you on the phone... I forgive you as well..." Man I sat off A bomb. SCREAMING AND CRYING, WE ARE BETRAYED WEE WANTED TO PROTECT YOU! It was so fun tbh.

I'm telling you timmy it was like a break up

@csquare So very proud of you. They will come around eventually.

@csquare My Mom was indifferent but the relationship is much better. All smiles. 😊

@Sar Sar, disregard people that have watched you ask for forgivness. Even that move of yours was rude and you could see it from my "retarded" response or so it would seem. It just describes my let's say earthly personality. My mistakes are my own. You don't need to ask for forgivness ever again. Cause you know for things you recnognize for yourself you don't need forgivness for that. Your future actions will depend on it. God depends on you. I know you must be or are opposite of me. It's ok. Our goal believe it or not is the same. One truth. We cannot escape that. It is written in our reality. Peace be upon you

@Sar I came here today just cause I didn't wanted to let you live without knowing you don't have my support or that you won't have it in the future. It's okay for disbelief, testings, even displaying anger towards something, that's all part of the solution. Before I was testing god's existance. Now I don't do that anymore. But I like you was the same in a way. Even tho we are opposite. Truth is the same. No one likes their mistakes being analyzed. It just depends on how you are looking upon this mistake. From which angle. I need one more year...this is getting nowhere. I need to find the way to explain all of these two paragraphs in just two or three short sentences. Or even words.

I wish I could have said. Blah and you could understand All of this that I've said.

In a way you do. Cheers. And hope people from jesses channel enjoyed this illiterate unimportant rant

Even devil isn't privilged. Everyone will see for theirselves when they die. That devil doesn't pass through. Devil might trick you that he is privilged on earth.

He can just trick you on Earth, and if he manages to trick you to not lose three sins when you die ( cause you will hear him till you finish confessing before God - the Devil - you will hear him too ), talking still about those three sins which you can carry to God, for him to cure you. The Sin - you - three is the subject. You - the Devil - and God in one context. Where God is the subject. Losing sins the solution. If devil manages to trick you just in one of those three. Your soul is his. Your soul is his. Not of God's anymore. He will speak out loud trying to emotionally change your testimony and coffessing to God. Don't be weak. Listen to the Devil let him finish, and just continue on giving your testimony to God. Remember God intettion is to cure you out of all sins. Don't give up and reward will be good. Don't give up when you die I mean.

But luckily for all this is after you die. and luckily for many I left you all clues how to come to god while on Earth.

Path, rules, everything is already defined through sin and through works of god.

Jesse Lee peterson and belief in God through Christ that is happening in America is Amazinnnn'. That's all I will say. God bless you all\

What have you done to better yourself today?

@noobpocket Had a nice long convo with my stepdad and forgave him and asked for his forgiveness. I am feeling more complete! 😊

Started my first day of school at community college, and ordered the books I’d need for all my classes. I had stuff come up before I got to school today, but I thanked God (literally) that it was not worse and that everything still worked out fine.

I worked out until I couldn’t stand

Then ate some chicken

@Deleted User - That's excellent! That's a very brave thing to do, and takes guts. You're moving into the house of God by your actions. Outstanding, madame.

@Szayel's Pooppion - Taking a first step is difficult, but you moving forward is a good indicator that you are ready for growth. Treat every day as a chance to improve yourself and soon you'll be seeing results. 😃

@PastPresentFuture - You're a Chad, Tim.

@noobpocket you’re more Chad hank

😎

@noobpocket Thanks, bro!

I've been improving myself by going to work every day, drinking a lot of water, and improving my fitness. I'm going to be getting a gym membership here soon, but I'm going to need transportation to do that. But I still have weights at my house, and my back yard is a field, so I can easily do some cardio, lift, and everything here.. So this weekend I'll be starting that.

But more importantly, I'm focused on my goals, which are continuing to discipline myself. Being a man to me means doing things that are difficult, or sometimes doing things you don't want to do. A well-rounded person can handle many different situations. I want to be a person like that.

I’m proud of you hank. #nofear

Thanks, brother! You, too.

Next time I go to the grocery store I'll be getting some stuff to do meal prep. That's going to be part of my financial discipline as well.

Part of this probably belongs to <#464144378936688655>, but I guess it's okay because it's relevant to the conversation. Practicing discipline is the thing I've noticed is the most important part to accomplishing your goals.

You are what you do everyday

Everyday

@noobpocket ty sir 💁🏻‍♀️ I truly feel that way too; ready for more growth and able to take on each day as it happens. Lately I’ve been no longer thinking too far ahead & letting the fears and anxieties get to me. Gotta let each day reveal itself.

I spoke with my Stepdad last night. He said to me that alot of men don't like women with overbearing personalities. I told him that I got it from my Mom and he disagreed.

what made him say you are?

@Szayel's Pooppion We this was the discussion that lead to forgiveness with him. He was giving me some advice on how a woman should treat a man. He said many of my boyfriends would talk to him and say that I am overbearing. He would tell them that if I am what they are looking for, give it time but also declare that he is a man.

I don't think it is my personality. It is my charisma that can be smooth or sharp.

If someone messes with me or had gotten me aggravated, I can come off pretty standoffish. I don't intend to be mean but try to have a meaningful argument. But I see what he means. I used to get hurt alot by these beta males: physical abuse, manipulated, etc. So I thought having a stiffer voice and a backbone would protect me.

I guess that is why I would do fine in the military and I guess that is why I preferred to not hang out with other people. I got a friend frustrated at me because I told him what the role of a father should be and he disagreed.

So I just need to take it easy and listen alot more and stop getting so defensive.

Hmm I wonder if that makes me overbearing as well?

I just don't see that actually fitting the definition, you just sound either assertive, or assertive boardering aggressive

I'm assertive myself, so I've had plenty of rl or online situations where people thought I was being aggressive, saying something too sternly, cold, angry or upset. It rarely ever is the case though