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Yeah, my glasses make my facial appearance very top-heavy, so to speak.
Same
I used to not really think about my glasses, now I take any visual que I can to reduce my soy factor.
Indeed. Anyone else purposefully not opening their mouths during photographs?
I don't smile much in pictures, but that's because I'm bad at forced smiles
If you look at my picture in OC on the fitness server, that's about as much as I smile
The soy smile meme got to me. TBH, I used to do it often.
Same, I soy smiled a few times.
Now I have RBF
It really is the expression of a man who does not know what to do, but must express a nominal, obligatory degree of emotional engagement.
In a non-threatening way
Take notes on peak chad expression boys
Big brain...
i-is that real?
that's really cringy looking
*tips fedora*
Pretty much never wear any hats other than ball caps (if you've the requisite muscle mass) or stocking caps in cold weather
Although I wear a bucket hat on the lake. Sunburn prevention
White men must own a hat for white outings.
...not fedoras...
You should wear a hat for the express purpose of taking it off indoors.
That's something people need to do again.
It shows your host you aren't hiding a yarmulke.
It's only polite.
It's a quick "No schlomo bro"
Key
I've had grils say that they like my glasses before, but I think most of the time it's a facetious comment.
I don't smile, I smirk or have a solemn face.
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN Cowboy hats acceptable.
@Tanner - SC 'natural eye wetness'... Low IQ terminology of the day ๐ try ocular moisture distribution, or corneal lubrication behavior haha. And Interesting exchange with Louis yesterday. It's okay though, all our guys need a chance to vent a little autism one way or another.
But I concur, cowboy hats are a good option. Just don't go overboard. It's good to wear to work, or specific public outings. I'd be disingenuous for not giving the disclaimer that I consider those lightweight polyester-mesh (vented) type fisherman hats (albeit a larger brim,) superior for actual demanding labor in the heat.
The fisherman hats are definitely more practical. The cowboy hat is just a little more cultural, for applications that donโt require maximum practicality.
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN I got a good kick out of that last bit on the gaping soy face, 'in a non-threatening way', succintly put.
It's essentially the ubiquitous product of pervasive neutering of male expression and aggression. When you've been raised in a progressively gynocentric school system that constantly curbs boys' tapping into their inner Chad, you inevitably get shit like soy face, hover hand, and on the opposite extreme of the spectrum, rap and such. One could get profoundly poetic and 'meta' on how it ties into the state of masculinity as it's been degraded by modern society.
Alternatively, you call them a C U C K.
The Jews have set up a media culture where the only 2 options for male behavior is negro or tranny. Either zero testosterone, or Tyrone. No healthy male role models allowed.
In my humble lady opinion, I think glasses are just as, if not more attractive than no glasses. Having said that, and being a glasses wearer myself, I put contacts in when I want to make a good first-third impression. After that, they see me in glasses. If they have a problem with that, I donโt want anything to do with them.
This might be a strange notion I have, but I think glasses + long hair is a negative. However glasses + short hair or contacts + longer hair is acceptable? I just associate long hair + glasses with a certain degenerate hippie look. This is of course all just a generalization. Been thinking of growing out my hair a bit (medium length) and going with contacts as I think it may suit me better than fash cut + glasses.
I kind of agree with that. I think glasses lend themselves best to a clean, academic kind of look, and long hair often contrasts with that aesthetic.
Nerdy girls are ultra hot so Iโm a fan of glasses on girls
I usually wear contacts myself
I hate tinder, why do I subject myself to this
@Deleted User you need a self rule like everytime you open the tinder app needs to be matched with you asking someone out in real life
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>"complicit in the system"
Hey gal pal, there's a place with none of this 'system' you hate so much. It's called Haiti. Self-deport immediately.
Of course is she not aware that Cyclops took up Magneto's mantle, seized the Phoenix Force himself in an attempt to secure mutantnostate and is now considered double-UncleA status in canon? Pleb.. ๐ค
Based? anyway autism tangent over.
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN well this *is* <#436337973001322508>
Is growing a beard to chinmax worth the potential soy?
@Attrition in the desert soyvoys/bugmen/numales did kind of ruin beards, but if you're fit, sharply dressed and groomed, no one will mistake you.
Good point.
I just started using Coffee Meets Bagel app and surprisingly there are actually some quality girls on it so yโall might wanna check it
I have had similarly good results with Match.com
Damn, guys. I've been on bumble 10 minutes
Bumble b lit
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Coming right out of the gate with Tennessee
I hate bumble tbh, itโs a less degenerate tinder. It still uses the same method, but a different skin with like 2 more road blocks.
Tinder explicitly promotes race mixing.
Meanwhile Okcupid is just a cesspool of filth and trans.
We literally have no decent online options for dating.
@Arvon yeah, but I'm tired of being single.
If you don't want women to be degenerate, snatch them off dating sites before they spend too much time there
@NateDahl76 it was a joke more than anything. She wasn't too qt
Yeah you gotta look for those sweet sweet new members. One strat I wanna try is going to church and finding women there.
I don't have much hope for apps, "church" is good but vague, if you're interested in meeting people through church oriented things then go to events specifically for young adults or at least adults of a social nature. At a service/mass it's not really the time. Another good one is night classes of various kinds. Taking a foreign language night class is especially good for this since talking to others about basic things in the foreign language is a big part of any such course. Otherwise night classes in painting or something if you like that.
Iโm joining my local church youth group and going to their events. Also attending the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults ( RCIA ) night class.
I met my fiancรฉ at a libertarian club meeting. I wanted someone who cared about ideas and who was intelligent, and who might be open to red pilling. I didnโt realize Iโd meet someone who was already very white focused and well read. We both bonded over the different views we had than everyone else there. It took us too long to finally get together though. When you meet the right one, just get her a ring and tell her youโre getting married.
I've been going to dance classes in a similar effort. So far no luck but I think it's a good medium.
We should all get crossfit gfs
https://goo.gl/images/qHBv9P
Tfw no crossfit gf
Tfw no face
Wzmyn with abs are not my thing.
Some of the women I know from CrossFit had hormonal issues after overtraining
Specifically fertility
I want a nice girl who can beat me up
Hell yeah
Agreed
I couldnโt do it.
I'm joking, of course, guys
Are you sure?
No....
Tfw no qt 3.14 retarded antifa gf that I can bully into right wing ideology
Now I want one of those
Apolitical gfs are the way to go. Donโt be fooled by them virtue signaling to liberal friends
Had a girl tell me she liked Trump (because she liked me) and then tell a friend she liked the democrats in the same day
I donโt know. If sheโs too indifferent to raise your (potential) kids a certain way, itโs not necessarily worth spending time and money on her
I agree though, many women are shapeshifters with their political views
Sure, men can be too. Though none of these types of men or women are in Identity Evropa or involved with dissident politics at all.
Thatโs definitely true from my experience. My ex had a best friend who would literally protest trump rallyโs and invite her. However, she actually just didnโt care about politics at all. Otherwise, we would have been over after no more then a few months.
Joined Bumble a couple days ago. Finding quality (in both attractiveness and values) white women! Conservatives seem to prefer the platform to others at least in my area
is everyone in IE joining Bumble?
@VinceChaos what sort of area are you in?
funny considering bumble kicked off the alleged account of Jack Posobiec for his views
@Mikolas Deep blue suburbs with white yuppies and mixed diversity. Iโm far enough from the city I get enough whites to be comfy
Thereโs an option to put โconservativeโ political views on your profile @NateDahl76 so yeah that is surprising I didnโt know that
@VinceChaos whellp time for a bumble account I guess, haven't tried it out yet.
I've tried several others, only came across two-three decent women but they were put off by my being divorced with two kids I'm pretty sure.
The origin for the app is super cucked. You canโt message the girl first so they can break traditional gender norms. But idk well see how it goes
Yeah that's why I avoided it previously
Same
But I figure it's hard enough for geniunely based/conservative women as well
So has some appeal to them as well
Most girls just start with โhiโ and then that gives you go ahead to lead the conversation forward
"hi" : OK
"hii" : really good sign
"hiii": she's really into you
"hiiii": yowza bowza
@ThisIsChris on point
also says something about their personality
lmao too many i's too many guys
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I found that too @Zyzz
It does seem to get quality women to their platform who arenโt just looking for that โhey sexyโ message and a hook up
Introductions from other women in and around IE work well, in my experience
My fiancรฉ has made several intros.
Well first event Iโm going to Saturday! As long as itโs not cancelled ๐ฌ
Iโs not cancelled. @VinceChaos, check Slack
@VinceChaos better see ya at LoPF 2019 as well ๐ (my spare funds were exhausted on DtR)
Oh that was so vague anyway lol
Yeah Iโm not sure about the national conference yet! Iโm strapped for cash but it should be near enough that Iโll be able to go with minimal travel expense
Well bois, just went on a date and managed to sperg out only minimally. Hell yeah.
Yeet goy
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Congrats @Attrition in the desert
Gamers rise up
Did you ask her what her opinion of King Charles the 2nd was
That's a second date question
Make sure you imply heavily the right answer, and let her know you'll be disappointed
I made sure to preface the date with the correct opinions regarding divine right and the accession of Edward the confessor.
The girl I was supposed to meet tonight flaked hard, but she sent her number instead. Either she's a scam in action, or she's very interested in the fake persona that I've carefully crafted via internet interactions
Hell yeah
2180 we can sperg about whether robot womb babies are white.
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Been on Bumble a few days. I will say the quality of women seems much higher than OKcupid. Unfortunately you can't pre filter by race like you can on (based?) OKcupid. And I dislike not having agency in Bumbles' "only ladies can message" feature. Waiting on the matriarchy to peruse the meat market.
But on a silver lining, Bumble is less of a time sink than OKcupid was, due to the lack of action options for men.
Unlimited swiping has me hooked
Does Tinder not let you swipe in an unlimited way? OKCupid did.
OKCupid lets you undo a positive swipe, which bumble doesn't
Not if you arenโt paying for it. Which idk about yโall but Iโll pass on
I see. Of course, never pay Silicon Satan.
Bumble's pay feature seems to be kind of "poke" you can give a woman who has mutual liked you but not messaged you yet. Very underwhelming.
I got on bumble yesterday and there are some decent girls on there
I tried okcupid a long time ago but literally every girl was either a single mom or a feminist phd student
@Sherlock Many such cases. (sad!)
Yeah dude itโs really frustrating
@Sherlock I met my wife on ok Cupid. even then it was a sea of degeneracy but as long as you are honest the questionnaire lines you up with people that are actually compatible.
I had okay success on OKCupid for a while but was banned twice for utterly unknown reasons.
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Scout's honor
I did mention Julius Evola once. Perhaps that is auto-flagged
Using Evola to woo a gal? One interpersonal communications merit badge for you :๐
Just on my profile. There is an 8pol gal that took the bait once, but our age difference (20 vs 31) was a bit much for her. She'll never join IE though, too introverted.
Anyone try eHarmony? From people I talk to it seems to be the most serious app for like actual marriageable people
@ThisIsChris the 40$/month fee I am sure creates in increase in quality bit drastic reduction in total numbers
Observation from Bumble. I started to get spike in messages once I added "Height not a typo" on my blurb ๐ ๐
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN re: numbers, only need to catch one good one!
@missliterallywhoI just have sympathy for my manlet brothers, as a fellow occupant of the conspicuous ends of the stature bell curve.
@missliterallywho Good point. Perhaps I see into the alternate timelines where I am not 6'9" and much, much more single lol
Most of the girls Iโve dated have been slightly taller than me. 3:1
And yeah woodape, stature solidarity ๐
I tolerate no bullying of short boys.
Because, to me, everyone is short.
Which is a big part of why online dating is cancerous; it enables artificial selective 'shopping' behaviors (on manicured profiles, not necessarily accurate ones,) that are contrary to both genders's interests/success on both a personal (finding a REALISTIC partner,) and societal (spreading diseases, removing natural social barriers) level.
A girl or guy could pass on a lot of otherwise viable candidates for stats like that when if they met and/or learnt eachother in a more organic manner that wouldn't be such a problem as Mrs. Logan says.
My challenge with online dating is that I donโt have good pics of myself. Trying to make a point of getting my pic taken when Iโm doing interesting shit
Yeah it's crucial you have a few pictures that aren't selfies.
@Sherlock id consider a professional photographer for headshots and then supplement with activity shots
I'd expect no less from the Zyzz, unique advice there brah
Tfw no blonde Panera Bread cashier gf that actually lives near me.
She was smiling and making great small talk, probably would have asked for her number if I wasnโt far from home
Feelsbadman
Approaching women at their jobs can be risky. You never know if they are just being engaging as customer service demeanor
@John O - total classic.
"And we all know that clones and nothingness are everywhere."
"Maybe we're all waiting to be one of those forgotten chosen ones"
I love Brad Neeley
I showed it to my roommates a couple weeks ago and they didn't get it
What did I just watch
@Deleted User hunt down a pre-synch'ed copy of "Wizard People, Dear Reader"
@John O - I don't know if I could ever truly connect with someone who doesn't find Brad Neely hilarious
As it says in the Bible: "the water-monster is right, cat-man."
In *a* bible
I worked with girls in fast food. Don't hit on them. They would always tell stories about "that weird guy who asked for my Snapchat at the drive through".
Well dude, there's a difference between asking a girl immediately to show credentials, and talking her up a little beforehand
True that, when I was younger I pulled a few numbers from drive thru chicks. One was a manager of a Burger King hahaha
It was more than good customer service. We talked for a few minutes while stuff got ready, and she perked up when I said I worked for an industry that had a location very close by
Get it boy
Tfw
uff da
I find that playing the "text game" winds up hurting me way more than helping me
Same, it seems like there is a such a narrow window to secure a date or reach some threshhold of interest.
Before the gril's attention span wanes
I get plenty of matches but so few responses on messages. And even those taper to silence after a day or two. Am I finally "attractive but boring"? The opposite of how I have been most of my life according to many.
There's one girl that I'm very interested in off of Bumble that I've been chatting with for like 5 days. We send 3 or 4 messages to each other a day, and today she sent me her snapchat. Pretty confused, tbh
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN a lot of women just swipe for validation. That doesn't mean you couldn't become more interesting, just something to consider
@John O - Not sure how to make a message more interesting without seeming desperate or outlandish. When a gal has a blurb written up I can respond to it with queries, but what should one even say to a gal with a blank profile and generic photos?
"Ay gurl, would you like to hear more about IQ distribution between men and women?"
It's all so tiresome. If I believed in God I'd have become a monk by now.
That's how you open
Inject humor
lel
Monastery gang gang gang
Buddhist monastery you can learn kung fu, but they make you be vegetarian. No can do
>tfw no Spanish inquisition gf
@John O - text game kills me too because most girls are shit at conversation over text. I always ask to meet by the 3rd message. I get dates a little more than half the time. None of any quality though hahaha.
I let them know right up front I'm a grown ass man and I don't like games, texting is a game. I don't have time for that shit, but I'm old haha
Tfw almost 36 and no wifey hahah
I'm good at text game, I was referring more to the "don't respond too quickly " rule
@RevStench we're all gonna make it
32 here.
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN are you a college grad?
Will be in a month, inshaalah
(that's ironic)
Sperm bank, sorry if anyone is offended by that
Allah, souria, bashar ou bas brother
Are you saying I should contribute to a sperm bank?
Yeah
I thought you had to be blonde and with a masters degree?
But maybe 6'9" and a bachelor's will do
No dude, height is the major limitation
Isn't there some kind of pay scale at sperm banks?
I mean that is worth thinking about in the off chance some lesbians want a big son. But it doesn't help me have my own family.
Yeah, but it's not worth the money. The only real reason to donate sperm is progeny
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN tbh, I care about family only a little more than progeny
do they tell you if someone picked your DNA?
I have lots of siblings. If I don't know my own kids, I don't think that would be that bad
Not who, just in general?
You can elect to make that information available to the mother, but I don't think you would know
Lol I am so autistic the paranoia of not knowing would pester at me
Haha, start dating younger.
Sperm donors paying child support is a real thing
Really?
Yeah
Mostly in states like Cali and NJ
Wow, I'd be so mad.
uff da. Surely there'd be paperwork? Anything to get one over on the white man. Christ.
F
Whatever man, that's the risk
Versus what reward? Globalist lesbians abuse your son and turn him into a mess?
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Lots of sterile males get surrogates
There are plenty of good families that do it, and the sperm banks often screen well
I'm honestly not that great. My DNA isn't so much better than other white guys that it would overcome whatever crazy mind-fuckery the child would likely endure.
Dude, it's not that bad to be a surrogate kid
Of course itโs just an anecdote, but a cousin of mine was born from a donated egg. His โmomโ is Jewish but heโs 100% European. His life has been rough.
Iโm excited to tell him the truth when heโs 18.
โEver notice anything strange? Anything you couldnโt explain? Youโre a Goy, Harry.โ
Yeah it's just hard to try to keep a femoid's attention on online dating when she is presumably getting tons of messages constantly and splitting her ability to focus.
Even getting off the platform and onto texting ect is a herculean task most of the time.
Granted, the majority messages sheโs getting are so bad the bar is very low.
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