tfw no gf

AYYYOOOO

beat me to it

r/alone

🇹 🇫 🇼 🇳 🇴 🇬 🇫

mgtow tho

jk

where the thot posting channel at

Work girls a bad call to talk to?

mostly

Why tho

depends on the work

not necessarily

talking to is never a bad idea

just be circumspect as you should be everyone

and watch red flags

I'd be careful, I dated a girl from work once, turns out she was psychotic and insane. After I broke up with her I still had to work with her and she would use work as an excuse to follow me around all day.

Tfw no girls obsessed over you to levels that are frightening and uncomfortable

But I also know people who met their spouses at work, so it depends

try being more of a man

@ChillS tfw no yandere gf

unironically mean this, not insulting you

Hello, I would like to learn how to be single

@Jacob post "tfw no gf" memes

@ChillS I still talk to a girl I worked with two years ago. We're kind of running out of things to talk about, though, since we used to always shitpost about work.

I've never met him. She used to like me a lot, but I didn't know how to properly stoke a relationship at the time. Would do battle though.

Something similar happened with me. I asked out a pretty conservative girl that I've clicked with well. She turned me down, "Not ready for a relationship." A week later she starts dating an Asian guy

It's especially sad considering that a beautiful White girl will have children that likely won't resemble her or her entire lineage.

Well damn I hadn't thought about it like that

Feels bad man

lol sorry!

Lmao

always makes me laugh when nonwhites oggle over white girls without the understanding of why they look that way in the first place

@Aleis⊕ccidentalis thanks for ruining my night 😡

I'll stop now

F

literaly happened to me over the weekend with my >based black friend

If that soyboy can land that hottie you can too

I'm also trying to imagine why shes into him, he doesn't look like a guy who's supremely confident

probably loaded

Is money really that attractive to women

well its def not bc hes good looking!

yes, it is

it's not everything obviously, but it's insurance for offspring

@ChillS Do you have any solid research to back that up? Not trying to challenge you so much as I don't want people taking blackballs if they aren't even real

It's somewhat true

I know alot of people personally like that

but I suspect they'll change

Having a woman pay for you generates no attraction in them

@Pat-MA True

Tip: Juventutem is a great group for meeting nice Catholic women.

^^

Simimlar things for orgodox?

@givemetheafd No idea. Haven't done any research on it.

Lol should I be sad or glad that I found my way into this channel?

@Warren H It all depend. Many a man have wished once to not be single, only to find themselves longing for their long lost bachelorhood.

Tfw single

Tfw no gf

Am I right lads?

Feels bad man

I feel free and wealthy...single is not too bad. It's not forever. AltRight qt3.14 will come to you, but only if you thumbs up this post!

>throw party for my school’s college republicans
>hit it off with really nice girl, see her for about two weeks
>she stops talking to me
>talk with her other friend
>”she said she would have liked it if you were more edgy and memey”

Dis is what I get for acting like a normie

>tfw when just broke up after 5 rocky years
>was engaged

>tfw when not blackpilled, rather liberated

Remember boys, it matters not how hot she is... some guy somewhere is sick of her shit

Just be the kind of guy that your ideal woman would want. Dont ever cuck on who you are just to get the girl

*if you build it, they will come*

@unclefesterr Been there.

Yeah @unclefesterr youll be alright bud, dont sweat it. Just focus on being the guy you want to be, and eventually itll all fall into place. And stay outta your head; idle hands are the devils workshop.

dont blackpill yourself

No worries I’m already over it. Just a very ironic twist of fate

I feel ya there

No gun posting, or suicide posting

kek

@ThisIsChris For some reason, I think these might the most problematic forums.

@Rick yes I'm trying to give them a few days to see if we can work out good rules for them, but I will absolutely nuke them if needed.

It is amazing how a goy can have one area of his life in order and the area of love a total wreck.

I cannot underscore this enough. If you are on the dating apps I strongly suggest you weave in a line or two about you being one or all of the following: traditional/against hook up culture/looking for something serious. if you can do that while using humor or poking fun at our degenerate culture all the better. If you put a message like that out there you will have girls messaging you (i do). There are not many men out there who actually want something serious so you will stand out.

With all that said it is imperative you are firing on all cylinders in other aspects of your life. You need to 1) be fit, 2) have your career down, 3) have financial resources, 4) be well dressed/groomed. if you can do all that you will have quality girls coming to you

and also make sure you have professionally done photos shot on a DSLR camera.

@Zyzz Seconded. That said, you're going to get less matches if you make fun of the culture we live in, want something serious, or countersignal thots. HOWEVER: The people you will attract will be more compatible to a traditional lifestyle. It's like sales. LESS leads of MORE quality is better than MORE leads of LESSER quality.

@Zyzz @Washington good points. I think in sales jargon they call it "qualified leads". But it makes perfect sense, if you're upfront with who you are and who you are looking for then it helps both men and women find compatible partners faster.

In the end, you only need one.

I think a good way is to be intensely social when single. Go to dinner parties. Host dinner parties. Attend church, maybe even a small group, volunteer, and in a general sense be a man about town in a good way. Make yourself known. It’s not easy if you work an office job in an all male field like engineering so you have to get out there. It’s really hard to meet women when you life outside a large metro area because most women love cities, but it can be done.

A bachelor needs discipline so be sure and rely on the church and the gym for structure.

Small group? AG detected. True though. Use an IE card as a bookmark in your bible maybe.

Might help start the right conversation.

Book based pickups are the best ways to find redpilled qt's.

Book based?

Like, go up to a qt reading a woke book and start a conversation about it?

@NeoRealist nice, books are trad

tfw you swipe through dating apps and there is not a single non degenerate thot in the lineup

sad but tru

boston is gross

all the respectable women move here after they are married or dating already it seems like lol

@Zyzz whats ur bio bro lemme copy that hahaha

@johnnyc I stay far away from the tinders my man

haha i thought u were talking about what to put on dating apps @Zyzz

havent been on tinder in awhile but i find that the women tend to seem more put together and not as many thots on "bumble"

I've heard the opposite

lol really?

ive heard the same from my friends about bumble

I was on both on-and-off for years (frat guy in a big school). Tinder has a lot of thots, but if you're a top tier man you'll do better on it because there are more options and can beat 85% of most.

Bumble. Less thots, but women have to take the initiative to message you first. Not always a good thing because most women are notoriously bad at taking initiative in dating.

I don't find Tinder to be helpful for improving your life

It's not supposed to be used like most men use it. Limit yourself to five to ten minutes a day of swiping and that's it. You will have much better odds talking to 3D women IRL

Of course. It's become a principle thing for me.

I understand that. At the end of the day, it's just a tool, depending on how you use it, but even if used in a non-degenerate way it's not a super effective one compared to other methods of trying to find a GF.

Bumble is deleting any gun related pics. They also donate to planned parenthood when you make a match.http://thefederalist.com/2018/04/24/bumble-presumes-all-of-its-users-support-planned-parenthood/

I've been out of the dating game since before dating apps where a thing. But I can not imagine that it is a very good way to meet good women.

it works if you're a morally shaky chad

@johnnyc yeah I was using hinge with good results. you should note that these apps are location dependent. the idea is you want to use pictures and/or blurbs that screen out girls you are not interested in. For instance, I had a picture of myself in a trump hat. I also had a comment taking a jab at hook up culture, implying I am looking for something serious

Again, come backs to how you use it. You can find quality women on there. You just have to do a lot of vetting and run your metal detector over lots of trash before you find buried treasure on the beach, metaphorically

^

@JesseJames me too. I think I just missed the cut-off too. Everyone I know IRL who got in a relationship after me got into it through a dating app.

I don't know anyone who is in a real relationship that started on line. The only people I know who uses it is to hook up. I hate it for you single guys. I started dating my wife at 17 and was married at 20 and had our first kid at 21.

@JesseJames a lot of negatives that were previously associated with internet dated have faded with a younger generation and more quality people have joined. a girl i took out last saturday asked me why i was using internet dating and i explained its a good way to meet people who can get a better feel for who you are prior to actually meeting you. i explained to her that I am not interested in dating any liberals or really anyone who doesnt like trump hence my picture with a trump hat. I also said if i was meeting some random girl at a bar or whatever then i really have no idea of who she is and vice versa. it'd be nice to meet people through family/friends but as you know we are a very disconnected people and many people find it difficult to meet people through friends.

The pros of Internet dating are its cons. You have access to lots of high quality people. The problem is they have access to lots of people who are probably higher quality than you.

hard to find guys higher quality than IE guys. if we do find them then we should recruit them

I am in a frat. It is hard AF to rip normies out of there happy life to join us.

Sometimes I tell guys that if you don't know what I'm talking about now, you will eventually. They are coming for us all

Patrick made a comment on the fireside last night about 80% of women are sleeping with the top 20% of men. I don't think anything in the near term is going to derail that trend so my only piece of advice to all the IE men out there is to get in the top 20% if you're not already there. self improvement needs to be a cornerstone of our movement

@Zyzz I'm kind of doubtful of that 80/20 stat

It's true in sales.

But regardless of the actual stat, I think it demonstrates a point.

@ThisIsChris I cant confirm or deny that stat but I know one thing and it's I'd rather be in a powerful position where I have choice rather than a weak position where I am being chosen

^This

@Zyzz Just marry me already man

lol

self-improvement is important, for sure. I just don't want our guys to be any more black-pilled than they have to be, and that stat if true would be very black-pilling

Men should always be in a constant state of improving themselves. That should continue even after marriage. If we're doing our jobs as men then that is par for the course no matter what that stat is.

It also keeps your woman attracted to you

^Yes, and motivates her to keep up, stay fit, and pull her weight in a relationship.

Go to public gatherings with your IE guys, they are your best wingmen. You all will be confident around each other and the body language that emanates from that is good for you.

What do you goys think about nightclubs/bars for the purpose of meeting grils? Are they inherently degenerate or just have some degenerate qualities?

Depends on the bar. In a small town the bar is where everyone hangs out so it's not as degenerate, but I'd steer clear of night clubs.

@Attrition in the desert Bars, great if you have game and a wingman. Women go here to socialize and find a mate. If you're looking for a girl who has never been with a man before or very religious, by all means, skip it. That said, it's a social environment and alcohol is a social lubricant, so people are open to talking or exchanging numbers.

Nightclubs: Garbage. Loud preventing dialogue, EXTREME competition (unless you're a 9/10 Chad you probably shouldn't even show), women are of either inferior moral/physical quality or usually superior physical but inferior moral quality.

@Attrition in the desert mostly degenerate

@Attrition in the desert how about a book club? Books are trad

@ThisIsChris I have never met any woman who goes to a book club (not talking about church groups) that is not already a housewife with time on her hands or a shitlib that smokes pot, owns a cat, and praises modern art. Cultural marxism has infected that too.

I met my wife in a foreign language course.

Just throwing that out there

I feel like anything having to do with education is a good place to meet women. (Maybe it's a good place for women to meet met as well?) Not that all the women/men are good, but that there are good women/men there.

I do think with almost any activity you're always going to have to dig for the diamond in the rough

@ThisIsChris I hadn't thought of language courses. When I heard book clubs, my mind flicked to bible or language.

But yes, absolutely agree that education is a great place to meet top tier women.

Bible or fiction*

@Washington ah yeah sure I see. I wasn't trying to argue against your book club statement either, just spitballing more ideas from my experience. A language course is kind of ideal because you can go get coffee to practice the language (This is how my wife and I started meeting outside the course).

My aesthetics... I don't see the point of a fiction book club, I'm really sick of consumer culture.

A bible reading group could be hit or miss I suppose, a lot of variables that could go into that. I do imagine a nonfiction book club would be good, depending on the book. A bible reading club could be good but you want to choose a good one since the bible is a lightening rod that attracts all type of people reading it. I think what makes a good bible reading group is the same thing that makes a good nonfiction reading group: hopefully the group is lead by an expert in the source material, which turns it into a sort of laid-back class.

i think you should not go any place to meet a woman in particular. you should go about your life, increase the social things you do for yourself

and keep your eyes open

if you would go to book club or bible study anyways thats good

The language course idea is really great when I think about it.

agreed

I also met my boyfriend through language courses. He speaks German and offered to practice with me.

It’s great if you’re good at something and can offer to “help” a girl with it. She will think you’re just a nice guy and you can see if she’s worth hanging out with

He didn't answer the door in his boxers a la Spencer?

Krafty

Checking on the wheat fields. No women yet.

How far down did you dig?

You should look in a huwheat field.

I'm looking for the ones that have sprouted.

I believe they start at 52 blocks down.

Try a flax field.

@Freiheit - CA You don't want flax women

The legends of the flaxen-haired beauty are (((propaganda))) aren't they?

i search for my women in watermelon patches

😏

Wodder melen

Melen is wher melenen comes frum

@Freiheit - CA <#390542955079008257> is <--- that way

HAHAHAHAHAHHA

I love how finna became a word. It was originally an autocorrect fail, when autocorrect meant you had an expensive phone. AFAIK

*Hello fellow MGTOW's*

Yeah goy just go your own way, you don't need those pesky white children

“But don’t you want to travel abroad and have sex with local prostitutes goy?”

"You'll be free from a nuclear family, a caring home and all that other pesky stuff"

"Haha, who needs a woman that you actually have to spend money on? What retard would actually do that?"

"H...heh....right...*sniffle* "

Craaawwwliiing innnnn myyy skiinnnn

Little white children that will grow up and love their father and care for him.....

Just say no to families....

I wish I could find a wiif

Are decent girls who aren't taken even real?

In anime.

2D waifus

Bi-monthly wheat fields update: Still no women.

@Der Seeteufel - SD I think you have to wait until harvest time.

We'll see.

Women don’t find the wheat fields, you must capture one and put them there.

If I didn't know the context that would be a really scary quite. 😅

@Der Seeteufel - SD tell her you live in the Windows XP background and she won't be able to resist

@TV#8133 I don't actually live in the Windows XP background. I'm just the guy who grows them. Background farming is a small and neglected portion of the meme farming community.

Also I think I just figured out why I'm single.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=2s&v=E-VTJHtBPD4

Kinda disagree, to a degree.

If you are under ~28-30, etc. there is no reason you should settle for less. You should be focusing on you, your skills, your fitness, your career, etc. and trying to better yourself to the point where you can "have any woman you want"

Varg didn't start having kids till he was like 35

To be fair the rest of the time he was in prison lol

I think what he meant was that you have to actually step up and be a leader. No woman is going to meet all of your expectations right out of the gate...

Not really about settling for less

Yeah that perfect person in your head doesn't exist

its important to put into perspective that your SO may have attributes that may be less than ideal. You need to decide if you can live with this. No one is perfect

Surely we all have deal breakers but i think its important to not have an infinite number of them

"you've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above if you want to make it down into this tunnel of love"-Bruce Springsteen

At the end of the day you're lucky to just find one willing to grow with you

"elbows too pointy. NEXT!"

Yeah, I think any well adjusted person realizes this.

Everyone is flawed and a work in progress

Does anyone know any good dating apps that aren't scams or structured like a gimmick

Idk man, the idea of dating apps is kinda flawed, like only broken women who can't get a date irl are on them in my experience.

Whitedate.net

It's just getting off the ground

Oh wow

Can't vouch for it

Just know it exists

Less than 2k members though

Wheat field update #3: Due to a continuing lack of women we have decided to fertilize the wheat fields. Will update again in 15 days.

how do you tell the difference between a girl just being nice to you/platonically friendly and her giving signs she's into you?

There's entire books about this sort of stuff, but just asking is probably the easiest option. If you don't want to be super obvious just ask her to do something alone with you.

tbh i'm not sure if I'm into her

there's a girl in my martial arts class who started at the same time as me

and all this time I have no idea if she's just been friendly with me or trying to subtley tell me she's into me

so I'm just hoping for some kind of wisdom so I could differentiate

Yeah if you're not really interested in her then I would just not even worry about it. Just do what you normally do and let her escalate things if that's what she wants to do.

>women
>escalating things
🤔

Well if you are not interested and she likes you and she never says anything that's not really your problem.

fair enough

@Gaius Mucius Scaevola look up IOIs (indicators of interest). Study these and eventually you’ll be able to tell on your own if she’s into you.

Newly single. Advice on looking for someone who could be considered "marriage material?"

And/or what should be some basic criteria to look for?

I might be biased, but, being an IE member is a good start

IE > general population

True, and I'd agree. But what would list as criteria to look for, in terms of character?

@SamanthaM I think some important qualities in a partner are:
1. Able to communicate with you comfortably.
2. Being able to separate who you are as a person apart from what your emotional state might happen to be at one particular time.
3. Looking to make you comfortable.
I think these 3 go both ways in a successful relationship.

@SamanthaM are you asking for yourself?

@SamanthaM being a single women in IE is an absolute jackpot. idk if you go to meet ups but if not you should. the people(men) who i have met here are top quality. in terms of your question, i'd say someone who conveys to you that they want marriage and kids in the not so distant future. as in, someone who expresses intent and does so routinely. someone who isnt afraid of commitment.

also someone with their career together. as in, they have a job they like and they have a path to advancement

guys need to be financially secure in order to be available for marriage/kids

Come on ladies. Wheat fields are standing by.

I just want to put this out there. I'm currently tied down, but if any IE girls need some dating profile pics I literally have access to thousands of acres of wheat.

It's almost ready too.

@micbwilli you're already married right?

No but I'm not looking. I just kinda see post here and check them out. I'm discord obsessive and can't stand unread messages.

I don't even know why I was added to this part of the server.

I'm not a lady bro... 😅

ya'll can still get married

no homo

Oh goyd I'm sorry bro!

No worries. 👌