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I'm gonna met her parents
Okey bois i'm going to See her in couple of minutes
Wish me luck i'm going to need it
Best luck king, you got this
dont spill ur spaghetti
Well it could went better but it was still good
We hugged a lot and had a great time
Hey good news and close contact is still progress
I know i think this is slowly going the right way
And she told me lot of nice things like she is really having great time she said it like 5 Times and she is really glad i came
N I C E
Good shit
Get a girl with neck fat... so you can grab her out the party like a baby pit bull
Been busy and gone for a few days
But I'm on full day 3 of no porn
@Bodark Actual nice dude, keep it up
I'm trying
Noice
Generally speaking, I don't like talking about my shit but the past week or so I've been waking up like I'm back in the shit. It hasn't happened this much in a long time. I don't wanna go back to drinking and dumb shit like that and I can't exactly go and talk to anyone because "I was never there". So in essence when you can't sleep, what do you do?
As someone who doesn't have much time for sleep between night/day shifts I suggest at least trying to rest as much as you can. Make the room cold, have some sleepy tea, take your mind off of whats bothering you, put on the tv, whatever you need to do. Failing that, I generally get up and start my day, getting as many things done as I can, because when I am tired the next time, everything is already taken care of
On average I get about 4 hours of sleep a night. Used to I would just goto the gym until I was ready to pass out. But that isn't an option now. (no 24 hour gyms locally)
So basically I'm just trying to figure out what I can do to quiet my mind.
Distraction and diversion work, as well as a chemical edge. I have a special blend of tea that helps me along, and I'll have a tv or music going softly in the background
5
Ill try some shit like that.
It doesn't always work for me, But two or three hours is better than nothing
^ see that's my issue. I'm good with 4 hours, if I get less than that I'm fucked.
Just try it, and I guess forget about needing to sleep? If you get yourself worked up that time is running out, you'll never sleep
Ex. Thursday I woke up around 2300 and couldn't get back to sleep. I typically wake up at 04 and head to work at 06. So Friday I felt Like shit because I woke up from my bullshit.
Hmm, I'd still try the tea, distraction, and a bit of meditation. But if I was a sleep guru I'd be getting my needed rest
Valid
Let me know how it goes, and we'll evaluate from there
Will do
Merc you dont smoke?
I make music
I do not
Hell I barely even drink anymore to be honest
So its like you wake up gotta do security checks and then basically are awake the rest of the night or is it like the panic buzz
I wake up ready to fight and can't go back to slee9
Melatonin does wonders for the few guys I know who have issues like that, that and background noise, like water or go online and take your pick, I hear the enterprise background noise isnโt half bad
Do you know alotta the deep stretches for your back and legs
I do not
Did you do any prt?
Yes
As I said, before when it would happen I'd just goto the gym n work out til my body would quit
Prt is great and getting a good workout or a deep stretch usually helps alot.
Also practicing some techniques people with anxiety use can work as well grounding ya know
I'm tracking. It's why I still run gun drills and shit while bored.
Have dog?
I do
Drink water change your socks?
Always
I even rub dirt in it
I havent had to go farther than this really
Sometimes i just say fucknit because i know i lost a night
Eh I try not to let it get to me, it was only bad when I first got home ya know
But it's just been more frequent lately
Maybe as of late sometimes its good to let it fester? Get back to old discipline
Probably should let myself get back into the "warrior" spirit
Lol
So I made one out of your pic
Yes lets see it
It wont upload, some b.s. about being too big of a file
Screenshot it then re crop
Hell yea
The desert calls
i have trouble sleeping aswell
getting to sleep is an actual bitch and a half i'm just always thinking about shit
Shit blows
Yeah it does
@Trash Squid I know that feel bro.... Sleeping is a pain
Man, I tell you what,as soon as I get paid. I am gonna get a gym membership. Moved a lot of furniture this weekend. I feel great. My body toned up a bit, got dat pump, been doing push ups and sit ups to keep it going. I cant wait to lift
Good shit homie
Hell ya man
Thanks I wasn't trying to sleep tonight
oh you want more eh ?
@ะฝะฐัะธะปัััะฒะตะฝะฝะพะต ัะฑะธะนััะฒะพ getting probed by aliens might make it a lil difficult to sleep no?
Guys, i found a girl that didn't run away when i said blood turns me on.
What the fuck do i do to not fuck this up?
Not aure there lmO
Riiiip
Gimmie an hour or so to get setteled into my patrol, and I might be able to come up with something
I appreciate any and all help
Im a sad boi alone
I feel ya
Its been far too long since I've had these pissed off moths in me gut
Aight chief, I have a bit. Tell me whats going on
So like, this girl added me on fb, and messaged me, so we started talking. She said i reminded her of someone who makes her feel safe, and i responded with something like I'll make people bleed for very little reason, and instantly apologized because i wasn't sure if she was edgy or not and thats how i end up jacking off again. She ended up being *possibly* as fucked in the head as i am.
My whole problem is that idfk how to keep a girl fornthe life of me
Idek what the problem is tbh. They just get bored of me or something
Hmmm, so it's not in getting with this girl, its keeping her?
Like long term relationship stuff
I think i have at least a foot in the door
But yes
Ok. Thats a good start. If she's into you then go for it. Keep talking to her, find out what she's into, tell her about your stuff. I've found being blunt and honest works best
If she's similar to you, keep it up, keep her engaged, do fun things, have those tender moments. Go and get yourself a shield maiden
Ive honestly been as blunt as possible and it's been giving me anxiety because i really don't want her to kick me tonthe curb
Just breathe, if she hasn't hit the eject yet you might be good. But her her talking about herself, it'll take some of that anxiety of saying the wrong thing away
Thats actually not a bad idea
You're welcome. Dr. Dark's office is always open
I really appreciate it, man
Apparently she's coming over after she out of school
Awesome man, let me know how it goes or if you need anything else
I appreciate you, homie
โค โค
Okay no prob starting day 5
*porn
This is where I always fuck up
No porn?
Yep
Damn. Gonna have to blow the dust back in the ol noggin
@Bodark Actual I believe in you. Just treat it like no nut November. You unlock psychic powers after a month or so without busting
I am married so I'm definitely not giving my sex life up lol
Im joking my dude lol
But seriously, stay stong
Got laid last night so that helps lol
I also ran 2.5 miles and climbed 75 flights on the stair machine last night
Seems to help
I punch the retarder at work
Good substitutes
Unrelated, but ive been putting a handprint on the retarder at work everyday, and that bitch never gets cleaned.
Shits been there for like a week now
do not bully the retards pls thank u
I needa date an kawaii alien girl
I wonder how martian pussy feels like ๐ค
It ain't bad. Almost as good as Venusian
I'M YOUR VENUS
jk jk
@ะฝะฐัะธะปัััะฒะตะฝะฝะพะต ัะฑะธะนััะฒะพ the real questions. We probe them.
For science of course
Im becoming a depressed adult... all the things I use to have great interest in im slowly putting down. I used to build with lego. Mostly making tanks with actual detail, and contraptions using the motor sets and technic kits. Now i dont care for the plastic bricks. I feel like im too old for them. And that feeling is spreading around to ever other hobby or interest i have. From lego to video games. Video games are for kids... video games are for kids... video games are for kids keeps repeating in my mind. I used to want to start blacksmithing, like legit metal work, but ive begun to push that off and away subconsciously... i dont know what to do anymore and my parents just say "welcome to adulthood, get used to it"
And its not just those 3 examples, its every fucking thing
I mean not to be That guy but that's partially due to society today
Bruh I'm in my 20s, work all the time, got degrees, have a kid, and I still find time for dungeons and dragons type games. I stopped caring what other people thought of me a long time ago, and enjoy the things that make me happy
I used to find my job boring, ringing people up and putting freight away on its shelf. Nowthats the only feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction i get. From finishing freight 10 minutes early or getting a certain number of transactions on my register...
@thedarkness05 thats the thing, it isn't other people putting me down its coming from within. Im 20 too
Work is becoming more fun than life
Welcome to the jungle bud.
Ok, so why is that? Is it because you're growing out of them naturally, or is it a societal anxiety to abandon that stuff?
@Hellhound6 its the one without fun and games
But seriously, you need to get out and find stimulation
Its not me growing out of them, its wanting to continue the interest but not. Does that make any sense?
Yeah
I lost interest in pretty much everything I used to do for a bit. But I forced myself to get out even when I didn't want to
Like i want to keep building and playing video games, but i feel pressured to stop because thats for kids, and blacksmithing, theres no market for it in my area. Yeah i can fix the neighbors shovel for like 20 minutes of labor or she can drive 5 minutes to the ace and buy a new one
Fuck that
Dude keep up blacksmithing n shit if it brings you joy
You gotta rekindle those passions, otherwise life can get a bit dull. Do what makes you happy, even new things. I started dnd when I first got into college, its never too late to get a new hobby
I did want to get into airsoft, paintball, piloting, boating and all sorts of other cool stuff. But nope. Work is more important than what I want to do.
My dad didn't have one for years, until he finally did the stereotype doctor thing and bought a boat. Now he looks forward to race days every week and gets as excited as a kid
@PanzerWrecker dude I play paintball, I go hiking, and I spend one weekend a month in the mountains. Youbhave to make time for yourself or you'll end up blowing your brains out
Is a man supposed to be happy? Do i deserve happiness? Do i need it? No... work is more important than what I want to do.
False
My dad always says to contribute to society. I just want out of society...
See, thats the thing lil homie, we were groomed to be dependant on the government and to fit into a perfect schedule, that shit doesnt work
So make time for you
You can contribute, but you need to unwind. Ever see a watch spring under too much tension? It snaps under the pressure and stops working
Now im being yelled at by him that i need to get cleaning and stop wasting my time doing stupid shit. Its my only day off, i work more than him...
*"we gotta get out of this place, if its the last thing we ever do"*
Self care bro. Everyone needs it. I head to the range, and also find catharsis cleaning my guns for hours. Find those things that bring you back to center
Guns, cleaning improvements to self
@PanzerWrecker how are you now
Ok i guess. Was helping my dad cleaned out part of the garage. Found his old weights. He said to put them back (as in we were putting things back so we could close the garage door) and i asked him "how about i start using them?" So now i have a weight and bar. 30 pound curls.
Good
Guys, my depression has faded.
What tf is going on?
Why am i scared that im about to play myself
Play yourself?
Like, i feel like i damn near already got too attached. Im seriously scared that I just fuckin teenage girled myself and fell for someone who just wanted sex
I'm glas tjat worked out so far. But has she talked to you since or has he gone ghost?
She's driving home atm. As far as ik atleast. She said she'd message me, and before she left, she said something to the effect of please don't block me after this
Idk man. I feel traumatized by love, but like the way my brain ie wired, i damn near need it
It be like that. But for now take a breath, do something else to distract yourself. And maybe in an hour or so ask if she got home ok. Show you care, and if it was more than a nail n bail
I told her that i had a great time and hoped she felt the same.
You have someone on your side
Someone who you like
Thats a great thing, man
Better lose a loved one than not have loved at all
Loneliness is a fucking bitch
Try your best
Just don't be like me
@VI/K/INGinnaTRENCH/K/OAT I feel that
But ain't no use stressing over spilt milk
^^
You had the opportunity to love someone
Be grateful
You may think its nonsense, but it isn't
Ive had many
And honestly, i think id be bwtter ofd without then ever happening
I feel ya
Tbh I'm at the stage where I'm ready to settle down n shit
@VI/K/INGinnaTRENCH/K/OAT thats a no no
I live a life without any fucking good opportunities
Idk man. I've been so fucked up because of past relationships. They literally tore my brain apart
And I lived a life having relationships with hookers
That's all I got
And It's disgusting
I could imagine it not being fun
But imho, id rather be alome than be mentally fucked up and abused by someone other than me
@VI/K/INGinnaTRENCH/K/OAT never was
But you can always kick out
You can't force someone to get into a relationship, but nobody you can always get out of one
Idk, man. I don't think my brain works well around women
It straight spazzes and it makes me a ratger easy target
Neither mine
Don't try to understand them
Just follow the wind
Its not that. I just trust them too easily and believe things that in hindsight, i should have straight left over
Then your good
I can't trust'em
It's a nightmare
Not really. I still get terrors and ptsd from shit that happened years ago from females that weren't worth it
All of us
Exactly my point. Why cherish those who destroyed you as a person and made you hateful?
Enjoy them little things and stay positive
She said she wasn't going anywhere.
Can't count how many times I've heard that from basically ghosts now
It might be true. Just take it one step at a time, and try not to worry about it too much. If you need us we'll be here
I really appreciate you all. Thank you so much.
Anyone here ?
All ears
The government wants you to think that the government is behind everything
Pree-zent
Man I'm fucking stressed the fuck out. My art isnt getting fucking anywhere. Not that I aspire to be anything crazy. I'm just so fucking broke
I know that feeling bro
@Thomatorr, King of Ohio I produce music for a living and used to feel this way
My manager is always talking about how to use twitter to network to people
Been there but there's a lot you can do to make money at it
What art you make?
I make all sorts of stuff. I like to keep a varied style
All of it starts with mindset and understanding who you want your clients to be
I am just worried about not getting to training for the part time job
Send me some in the DM
@Thomatorr, King of Ohio do you use Patreon?
Nah
I dont quite get how those things work
Sign up for Patreon. The website explains everything on how it works. Excellent for artists of all kinds
Again, as someone who does high ticket freelance creative work for a living- it's less about tools and more about knowing who you're working for, what your goals are, and what you a want to be doing
When I get more time I wouldnt mind getting a chance to work that shit out with you Hobbit
Part of what I do is coaching but I mostly coach music producers like myself. I'd still be happy to chat with you tho
Thanks
DM me and I'll send you a link to my call calendar
I cant thank you guys enough for your time. Y'all motherfuckers dont even know me,and I sit here crying because you have all been so helpful. I've had people bullshit me out of art. Several people back out of commissions I started. I've sold my laptop,my old NES games,my collection of art books. Magic cards.
Most if not all of us know what it is to struggle. I'm going through some shit right now that could end any chance at a quality life for good. We're here for each other because we recognize that that it's all we got
@AKAlexei what's happening?
@Sir Harndes don't feel comfortable discussing it on public chat
It's serious, that's all I'll say
Got it
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