tell-us-about-your-problems

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2019-09-14 10:10:49 UTC

I'm gonna met her parents

2019-09-14 11:06:52 UTC

Okey bois i'm going to See her in couple of minutes

2019-09-14 11:07:04 UTC

Wish me luck i'm going to need it

2019-09-14 11:07:21 UTC

Best luck king, you got this

2019-09-14 17:08:52 UTC

dont spill ur spaghetti

2019-09-14 19:10:04 UTC

Well it could went better but it was still good

2019-09-14 19:10:46 UTC

We hugged a lot and had a great time

2019-09-14 19:11:01 UTC

Hey good news and close contact is still progress

2019-09-14 19:15:03 UTC

I know i think this is slowly going the right way

2019-09-14 19:18:42 UTC

And she told me lot of nice things like she is really having great time she said it like 5 Times and she is really glad i came

2019-09-14 21:53:26 UTC

N I C E

2019-09-14 21:59:13 UTC

Good shit

2019-09-14 22:11:33 UTC

Get a girl with neck fat... so you can grab her out the party like a baby pit bull

2019-09-14 23:45:18 UTC

Been busy and gone for a few days

2019-09-14 23:45:36 UTC

But I'm on full day 3 of no porn

2019-09-14 23:46:28 UTC

@Bodark Actual nice dude, keep it up

2019-09-14 23:46:48 UTC

I'm trying

2019-09-14 23:47:12 UTC

Noice

2019-09-15 18:27:24 UTC

Generally speaking, I don't like talking about my shit but the past week or so I've been waking up like I'm back in the shit. It hasn't happened this much in a long time. I don't wanna go back to drinking and dumb shit like that and I can't exactly go and talk to anyone because "I was never there". So in essence when you can't sleep, what do you do?

2019-09-15 18:36:37 UTC

As someone who doesn't have much time for sleep between night/day shifts I suggest at least trying to rest as much as you can. Make the room cold, have some sleepy tea, take your mind off of whats bothering you, put on the tv, whatever you need to do. Failing that, I generally get up and start my day, getting as many things done as I can, because when I am tired the next time, everything is already taken care of

2019-09-15 18:39:05 UTC

On average I get about 4 hours of sleep a night. Used to I would just goto the gym until I was ready to pass out. But that isn't an option now. (no 24 hour gyms locally)
So basically I'm just trying to figure out what I can do to quiet my mind.

2019-09-15 18:41:06 UTC

Distraction and diversion work, as well as a chemical edge. I have a special blend of tea that helps me along, and I'll have a tv or music going softly in the background

2019-09-15 18:42:55 UTC

5

2019-09-15 18:43:19 UTC

Ill try some shit like that.

2019-09-15 18:44:06 UTC

It doesn't always work for me, But two or three hours is better than nothing

2019-09-15 18:45:52 UTC

^ see that's my issue. I'm good with 4 hours, if I get less than that I'm fucked.

2019-09-15 18:47:09 UTC

Just try it, and I guess forget about needing to sleep? If you get yourself worked up that time is running out, you'll never sleep

2019-09-15 18:47:38 UTC

Ex. Thursday I woke up around 2300 and couldn't get back to sleep. I typically wake up at 04 and head to work at 06. So Friday I felt Like shit because I woke up from my bullshit.

2019-09-15 18:50:13 UTC

Hmm, I'd still try the tea, distraction, and a bit of meditation. But if I was a sleep guru I'd be getting my needed rest

2019-09-15 18:50:52 UTC

Valid

2019-09-15 18:51:41 UTC

Let me know how it goes, and we'll evaluate from there

2019-09-15 18:53:27 UTC

Will do

2019-09-15 19:23:36 UTC

Merc you dont smoke?

2019-09-15 19:23:58 UTC

I make music

2019-09-15 19:27:01 UTC

I do not

2019-09-15 19:47:40 UTC

Hell I barely even drink anymore to be honest

2019-09-15 19:58:21 UTC

So its like you wake up gotta do security checks and then basically are awake the rest of the night or is it like the panic buzz

2019-09-15 19:59:28 UTC

I wake up ready to fight and can't go back to slee9

2019-09-15 20:01:07 UTC

Melatonin does wonders for the few guys I know who have issues like that, that and background noise, like water or go online and take your pick, I hear the enterprise background noise isnโ€™t half bad

2019-09-15 20:01:50 UTC

Do you know alotta the deep stretches for your back and legs

2019-09-15 20:02:08 UTC

I do not

2019-09-15 20:03:32 UTC

Did you do any prt?

2019-09-15 20:06:48 UTC

Yes

2019-09-15 20:08:18 UTC

As I said, before when it would happen I'd just goto the gym n work out til my body would quit

2019-09-15 20:12:35 UTC

Prt is great and getting a good workout or a deep stretch usually helps alot.

2019-09-15 20:12:56 UTC

Also practicing some techniques people with anxiety use can work as well grounding ya know

2019-09-15 20:28:14 UTC

I'm tracking. It's why I still run gun drills and shit while bored.

2019-09-15 20:28:43 UTC

Have dog?

2019-09-15 20:29:23 UTC

I do

2019-09-15 20:29:43 UTC

Drink water change your socks?

2019-09-15 20:29:53 UTC

Always

2019-09-15 20:30:07 UTC

I even rub dirt in it

2019-09-15 20:30:07 UTC

I havent had to go farther than this really

2019-09-15 20:30:24 UTC

Sometimes i just say fucknit because i know i lost a night

2019-09-15 20:30:50 UTC

Eh I try not to let it get to me, it was only bad when I first got home ya know

2019-09-15 20:31:07 UTC

But it's just been more frequent lately

2019-09-15 20:31:39 UTC

Maybe as of late sometimes its good to let it fester? Get back to old discipline

2019-09-15 20:32:55 UTC

Probably should let myself get back into the "warrior" spirit

2019-09-15 20:34:05 UTC

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2019-09-15 20:36:58 UTC

Lol

2019-09-15 20:37:10 UTC

So I made one out of your pic

2019-09-15 20:37:18 UTC

Yes lets see it

2019-09-15 20:37:41 UTC

It wont upload, some b.s. about being too big of a file

2019-09-15 20:37:57 UTC

Screenshot it then re crop

2019-09-15 20:42:10 UTC

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2019-09-15 20:42:32 UTC

Hell yea

2019-09-15 20:42:49 UTC

The desert calls

2019-09-16 02:03:15 UTC

i have trouble sleeping aswell

2019-09-16 02:03:37 UTC

getting to sleep is an actual bitch and a half i'm just always thinking about shit

2019-09-16 02:04:33 UTC

Shit blows

2019-09-16 02:05:50 UTC

Yeah it does

2019-09-16 02:40:50 UTC

Man, I tell you what,as soon as I get paid. I am gonna get a gym membership. Moved a lot of furniture this weekend. I feel great. My body toned up a bit, got dat pump, been doing push ups and sit ups to keep it going. I cant wait to lift

2019-09-16 02:43:45 UTC

Good shit homie

2019-09-16 02:58:26 UTC

Hell ya man

2019-09-16 03:02:27 UTC

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2019-09-16 03:02:44 UTC

Thanks I wasn't trying to sleep tonight

2019-09-16 03:03:04 UTC

oh you want more eh ?

2019-09-16 03:04:18 UTC

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2019-09-16 03:08:22 UTC

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2019-09-16 03:35:28 UTC
2019-09-16 11:47:20 UTC

Guys, i found a girl that didn't run away when i said blood turns me on.

What the fuck do i do to not fuck this up?

2019-09-16 12:23:44 UTC

Not aure there lmO

2019-09-16 12:24:50 UTC

Riiiip

2019-09-16 12:26:38 UTC

Gimmie an hour or so to get setteled into my patrol, and I might be able to come up with something

2019-09-16 12:26:59 UTC

I appreciate any and all help

2019-09-16 12:27:07 UTC

Im a sad boi alone

2019-09-16 12:27:38 UTC

I feel ya

2019-09-16 12:29:38 UTC

Its been far too long since I've had these pissed off moths in me gut

2019-09-16 12:49:34 UTC

Aight chief, I have a bit. Tell me whats going on

2019-09-16 12:51:59 UTC

So like, this girl added me on fb, and messaged me, so we started talking. She said i reminded her of someone who makes her feel safe, and i responded with something like I'll make people bleed for very little reason, and instantly apologized because i wasn't sure if she was edgy or not and thats how i end up jacking off again. She ended up being *possibly* as fucked in the head as i am.

My whole problem is that idfk how to keep a girl fornthe life of me

2019-09-16 12:52:15 UTC

Idek what the problem is tbh. They just get bored of me or something

2019-09-16 12:52:58 UTC

Hmmm, so it's not in getting with this girl, its keeping her?

2019-09-16 12:53:18 UTC

Like long term relationship stuff

2019-09-16 12:53:20 UTC

I think i have at least a foot in the door

2019-09-16 12:53:24 UTC

But yes

2019-09-16 12:54:30 UTC

Ok. Thats a good start. If she's into you then go for it. Keep talking to her, find out what she's into, tell her about your stuff. I've found being blunt and honest works best

2019-09-16 12:55:41 UTC

If she's similar to you, keep it up, keep her engaged, do fun things, have those tender moments. Go and get yourself a shield maiden

2019-09-16 12:59:40 UTC

Ive honestly been as blunt as possible and it's been giving me anxiety because i really don't want her to kick me tonthe curb

2019-09-16 13:01:08 UTC

Just breathe, if she hasn't hit the eject yet you might be good. But her her talking about herself, it'll take some of that anxiety of saying the wrong thing away

2019-09-16 13:01:58 UTC

Thats actually not a bad idea

2019-09-16 13:10:16 UTC

You're welcome. Dr. Dark's office is always open

2019-09-16 13:55:24 UTC

I really appreciate it, man

2019-09-16 13:55:36 UTC

Apparently she's coming over after she out of school

2019-09-16 14:02:55 UTC

Awesome man, let me know how it goes or if you need anything else

2019-09-16 14:03:16 UTC

I appreciate you, homie

2019-09-16 14:04:41 UTC

โค โค

2019-09-16 14:15:25 UTC

Okay no prob starting day 5

2019-09-16 14:15:29 UTC

*porn

2019-09-16 14:15:39 UTC

This is where I always fuck up

2019-09-16 14:15:46 UTC

No porn?

2019-09-16 14:15:50 UTC

Yep

2019-09-16 14:16:04 UTC

Damn. Gonna have to blow the dust back in the ol noggin

2019-09-16 14:17:23 UTC

@Bodark Actual I believe in you. Just treat it like no nut November. You unlock psychic powers after a month or so without busting

2019-09-16 14:17:47 UTC

I am married so I'm definitely not giving my sex life up lol

2019-09-16 14:17:57 UTC

Im joking my dude lol

2019-09-16 14:18:06 UTC

But seriously, stay stong

2019-09-16 14:18:22 UTC

Got laid last night so that helps lol

2019-09-16 14:19:34 UTC

I also ran 2.5 miles and climbed 75 flights on the stair machine last night

2019-09-16 14:19:37 UTC

Seems to help

2019-09-16 14:20:20 UTC

I punch the retarder at work

2019-09-16 14:20:32 UTC

Good substitutes

2019-09-16 14:21:39 UTC

Unrelated, but ive been putting a handprint on the retarder at work everyday, and that bitch never gets cleaned.

2019-09-16 14:21:47 UTC

Shits been there for like a week now

2019-09-16 15:42:23 UTC

do not bully the retards pls thank u

I needa date an kawaii alien girl

I wonder how martian pussy feels like ๐Ÿค”

2019-09-16 15:46:47 UTC

It ain't bad. Almost as good as Venusian

2019-09-16 17:20:12 UTC

For science of course

2019-09-16 17:50:48 UTC

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2019-09-16 17:56:15 UTC

Im becoming a depressed adult... all the things I use to have great interest in im slowly putting down. I used to build with lego. Mostly making tanks with actual detail, and contraptions using the motor sets and technic kits. Now i dont care for the plastic bricks. I feel like im too old for them. And that feeling is spreading around to ever other hobby or interest i have. From lego to video games. Video games are for kids... video games are for kids... video games are for kids keeps repeating in my mind. I used to want to start blacksmithing, like legit metal work, but ive begun to push that off and away subconsciously... i dont know what to do anymore and my parents just say "welcome to adulthood, get used to it"

2019-09-16 17:57:38 UTC

And its not just those 3 examples, its every fucking thing

2019-09-16 17:57:59 UTC

I mean not to be That guy but that's partially due to society today

2019-09-16 17:58:20 UTC

Bruh I'm in my 20s, work all the time, got degrees, have a kid, and I still find time for dungeons and dragons type games. I stopped caring what other people thought of me a long time ago, and enjoy the things that make me happy

2019-09-16 17:59:18 UTC

I used to find my job boring, ringing people up and putting freight away on its shelf. Nowthats the only feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction i get. From finishing freight 10 minutes early or getting a certain number of transactions on my register...

2019-09-16 18:00:04 UTC

@thedarkness05 thats the thing, it isn't other people putting me down its coming from within. Im 20 too

2019-09-16 18:00:35 UTC

Work is becoming more fun than life

2019-09-16 18:00:48 UTC

Welcome to the jungle bud.

2019-09-16 18:01:03 UTC

Ok, so why is that? Is it because you're growing out of them naturally, or is it a societal anxiety to abandon that stuff?

2019-09-16 18:01:03 UTC

@Hellhound6 its the one without fun and games

2019-09-16 18:01:13 UTC

But seriously, you need to get out and find stimulation

2019-09-16 18:01:58 UTC

Its not me growing out of them, its wanting to continue the interest but not. Does that make any sense?

2019-09-16 18:02:22 UTC

Yeah

2019-09-16 18:03:01 UTC

I lost interest in pretty much everything I used to do for a bit. But I forced myself to get out even when I didn't want to

2019-09-16 18:03:26 UTC

Like i want to keep building and playing video games, but i feel pressured to stop because thats for kids, and blacksmithing, theres no market for it in my area. Yeah i can fix the neighbors shovel for like 20 minutes of labor or she can drive 5 minutes to the ace and buy a new one

2019-09-16 18:03:51 UTC

Fuck that

2019-09-16 18:04:06 UTC

Dude keep up blacksmithing n shit if it brings you joy

2019-09-16 18:04:43 UTC

You gotta rekindle those passions, otherwise life can get a bit dull. Do what makes you happy, even new things. I started dnd when I first got into college, its never too late to get a new hobby

2019-09-16 18:04:46 UTC

I did want to get into airsoft, paintball, piloting, boating and all sorts of other cool stuff. But nope. Work is more important than what I want to do.

2019-09-16 18:05:34 UTC

My dad didn't have one for years, until he finally did the stereotype doctor thing and bought a boat. Now he looks forward to race days every week and gets as excited as a kid

2019-09-16 18:05:47 UTC

@PanzerWrecker dude I play paintball, I go hiking, and I spend one weekend a month in the mountains. Youbhave to make time for yourself or you'll end up blowing your brains out

2019-09-16 18:05:56 UTC

Is a man supposed to be happy? Do i deserve happiness? Do i need it? No... work is more important than what I want to do.

2019-09-16 18:06:06 UTC

False

2019-09-16 18:06:45 UTC

My dad always says to contribute to society. I just want out of society...

2019-09-16 18:07:45 UTC

See, thats the thing lil homie, we were groomed to be dependant on the government and to fit into a perfect schedule, that shit doesnt work

2019-09-16 18:07:51 UTC

So make time for you

2019-09-16 18:08:17 UTC

You can contribute, but you need to unwind. Ever see a watch spring under too much tension? It snaps under the pressure and stops working

2019-09-16 18:08:32 UTC

Now im being yelled at by him that i need to get cleaning and stop wasting my time doing stupid shit. Its my only day off, i work more than him...

2019-09-16 18:09:25 UTC

*"we gotta get out of this place, if its the last thing we ever do"*

2019-09-16 18:11:02 UTC

Self care bro. Everyone needs it. I head to the range, and also find catharsis cleaning my guns for hours. Find those things that bring you back to center

2019-09-16 18:47:03 UTC

Guns, cleaning improvements to self

2019-09-16 22:51:09 UTC

@PanzerWrecker how are you now

2019-09-16 23:06:40 UTC

Ok i guess. Was helping my dad cleaned out part of the garage. Found his old weights. He said to put them back (as in we were putting things back so we could close the garage door) and i asked him "how about i start using them?" So now i have a weight and bar. 30 pound curls.

2019-09-16 23:07:06 UTC

Good

2019-09-17 02:50:10 UTC

Guys, my depression has faded.

What tf is going on?

2019-09-17 02:50:21 UTC

Why am i scared that im about to play myself

2019-09-17 02:52:54 UTC

Play yourself?

2019-09-17 02:54:53 UTC

Like, i feel like i damn near already got too attached. Im seriously scared that I just fuckin teenage girled myself and fell for someone who just wanted sex

2019-09-17 02:56:12 UTC

I'm glas tjat worked out so far. But has she talked to you since or has he gone ghost?

2019-09-17 02:57:12 UTC

She's driving home atm. As far as ik atleast. She said she'd message me, and before she left, she said something to the effect of please don't block me after this

2019-09-17 02:57:38 UTC

Idk man. I feel traumatized by love, but like the way my brain ie wired, i damn near need it

2019-09-17 02:59:30 UTC

It be like that. But for now take a breath, do something else to distract yourself. And maybe in an hour or so ask if she got home ok. Show you care, and if it was more than a nail n bail

2019-09-17 03:00:12 UTC

I told her that i had a great time and hoped she felt the same.

2019-09-17 03:02:31 UTC

You have someone on your side

2019-09-17 03:02:37 UTC

Someone who you like

2019-09-17 03:02:50 UTC

Thats a great thing, man

2019-09-17 03:03:50 UTC

Better lose a loved one than not have loved at all

2019-09-17 03:04:07 UTC

Loneliness is a fucking bitch

2019-09-17 03:04:45 UTC

Try your best

2019-09-17 03:05:11 UTC

Just don't be like me

2019-09-17 03:06:11 UTC
2019-09-17 03:06:33 UTC

But ain't no use stressing over spilt milk

2019-09-17 03:07:32 UTC

^^

2019-09-17 03:08:25 UTC

You had the opportunity to love someone

2019-09-17 03:08:38 UTC

Be grateful

2019-09-17 03:09:06 UTC

You may think its nonsense, but it isn't

2019-09-17 03:12:10 UTC

Ive had many

2019-09-17 03:12:26 UTC

And honestly, i think id be bwtter ofd without then ever happening

2019-09-17 03:12:33 UTC

I feel ya

2019-09-17 03:12:54 UTC

Tbh I'm at the stage where I'm ready to settle down n shit

2019-09-17 03:13:42 UTC
2019-09-17 03:14:10 UTC

I live a life without any fucking good opportunities

2019-09-17 03:14:36 UTC

Idk man. I've been so fucked up because of past relationships. They literally tore my brain apart

2019-09-17 03:15:42 UTC

And I lived a life having relationships with hookers

2019-09-17 03:15:50 UTC

That's all I got

2019-09-17 03:16:07 UTC

And It's disgusting

2019-09-17 03:16:31 UTC

I could imagine it not being fun

2019-09-17 03:17:14 UTC

But imho, id rather be alome than be mentally fucked up and abused by someone other than me

2019-09-17 03:17:56 UTC
2019-09-17 03:18:11 UTC

But you can always kick out

2019-09-17 03:19:00 UTC

You can't force someone to get into a relationship, but nobody you can always get out of one

2019-09-17 03:19:47 UTC

Idk, man. I don't think my brain works well around women

2019-09-17 03:19:59 UTC

It straight spazzes and it makes me a ratger easy target

2019-09-17 03:20:00 UTC

Neither mine

2019-09-17 03:20:19 UTC

Don't try to understand them

2019-09-17 03:20:41 UTC

Just follow the wind

2019-09-17 03:21:22 UTC

Its not that. I just trust them too easily and believe things that in hindsight, i should have straight left over

2019-09-17 03:22:13 UTC

Then your good

2019-09-17 03:22:27 UTC

I can't trust'em

2019-09-17 03:22:41 UTC

It's a nightmare

2019-09-17 03:23:13 UTC

Not really. I still get terrors and ptsd from shit that happened years ago from females that weren't worth it

2019-09-17 03:24:28 UTC

All of us

2019-09-17 03:25:10 UTC

Exactly my point. Why cherish those who destroyed you as a person and made you hateful?

2019-09-17 04:08:21 UTC

Enjoy them little things and stay positive

2019-09-17 04:10:38 UTC

She said she wasn't going anywhere.

2019-09-17 04:10:55 UTC

Can't count how many times I've heard that from basically ghosts now

2019-09-17 04:15:18 UTC

It might be true. Just take it one step at a time, and try not to worry about it too much. If you need us we'll be here

2019-09-17 04:16:14 UTC

I really appreciate you all. Thank you so much.

2019-09-17 16:36:47 UTC

Anyone here ?

2019-09-17 16:36:57 UTC

All ears

2019-09-17 16:37:22 UTC

The government wants you to think that the government is behind everything

2019-09-17 16:37:28 UTC

Pree-zent

2019-09-17 16:37:38 UTC

Man I'm fucking stressed the fuck out. My art isnt getting fucking anywhere. Not that I aspire to be anything crazy. I'm just so fucking broke

2019-09-17 16:37:53 UTC

I know that feeling bro

2019-09-17 16:38:08 UTC

@Thomatorr, King of Ohio I produce music for a living and used to feel this way

2019-09-17 16:38:18 UTC

My manager is always talking about how to use twitter to network to people

2019-09-17 16:38:27 UTC

Been there but there's a lot you can do to make money at it

2019-09-17 16:38:33 UTC

What art you make?

2019-09-17 16:38:47 UTC

I make all sorts of stuff. I like to keep a varied style

2019-09-17 16:38:54 UTC

All of it starts with mindset and understanding who you want your clients to be

2019-09-17 16:39:06 UTC

I am just worried about not getting to training for the part time job

2019-09-17 16:39:06 UTC

Send me some in the DM

2019-09-17 16:39:21 UTC

@Thomatorr, King of Ohio do you use Patreon?

2019-09-17 16:39:27 UTC

Nah

2019-09-17 16:39:38 UTC

I dont quite get how those things work

2019-09-17 16:40:00 UTC

Sign up for Patreon. The website explains everything on how it works. Excellent for artists of all kinds

2019-09-17 16:40:52 UTC

Again, as someone who does high ticket freelance creative work for a living- it's less about tools and more about knowing who you're working for, what your goals are, and what you a want to be doing

2019-09-17 16:41:49 UTC

When I get more time I wouldnt mind getting a chance to work that shit out with you Hobbit

2019-09-17 16:42:21 UTC

Part of what I do is coaching but I mostly coach music producers like myself. I'd still be happy to chat with you tho

2019-09-17 16:45:05 UTC

Thanks

2019-09-17 16:45:56 UTC

DM me and I'll send you a link to my call calendar

2019-09-17 16:49:27 UTC

I cant thank you guys enough for your time. Y'all motherfuckers dont even know me,and I sit here crying because you have all been so helpful. I've had people bullshit me out of art. Several people back out of commissions I started. I've sold my laptop,my old NES games,my collection of art books. Magic cards.

2019-09-17 16:50:40 UTC

Most if not all of us know what it is to struggle. I'm going through some shit right now that could end any chance at a quality life for good. We're here for each other because we recognize that that it's all we got

2019-09-17 16:51:27 UTC

@AKAlexei what's happening?

2019-09-17 16:52:31 UTC

@Sir Harndes don't feel comfortable discussing it on public chat

2019-09-17 16:52:39 UTC

It's serious, that's all I'll say

2019-09-17 16:52:49 UTC

Got it

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