Do your thing.

Did you talk to the lady

Besides brogay

I even took a photo of her. Im a fucking lose damn

Errrm

Boi.

Nope

Ok ok

Listen

Quick shot

I could probably help with that @Sir Harndes, ive got no problem talking with women. And i know it may sound bs but if you recognize patterns you can understand them.

Yes

Take a look

They are creatures of habit

@PanzerWrecker you know what you're talking about.

What does cancer feel like

at least where wermens r concerned

@wendikoshit dude

bail on it

turn left

She got the 🅱️ums

it sucks.

Men are at least accurate machines, women can be loose cannons.

Like sharp random pains and lumps?

Is that a prison or a high school? Kinda the same thing but ok

Lmaooo

Ngl, I thought it was a jail

Every school in here looks like a prison

Its a thing in here

Dont mind it

Chiraq

And i know my ways around jails

And no, thats no joke

@wendiko i live 30 mins from the city

@wendikoman. worse. DM me and I'll ramble.

Depending on traffic

Im sorry

Shes 18. So no jail to me

Yay

Man just do it

And as I said before, shes always with her friends

And the sooner you do it

The sooner yoy give her the pill

Goons can you explain something to me? Why most of girls i know see me as great guy but not great enought to date them?

@PanzerWrecker I can't predict woman

Because they want to save you till they're done hoeing

Qaiting for ideal conditions

@DAnteForneus frirndzone so they can chase others

Abort

My perception

As good as a deaf bat

@Sir Harndes never predict

just lead on.

I was put in the friendzone a while back. The gal legit told me and i fucking quote "im saving you as a backup incase my other relationships dont work out"
Thats the last convo we had, last friendly one at that. And she wonders why men ghost her

give a woman everything, and she's done with you.

Leave them something to search for in you.

@PanzerWrecker like?

Something interesting, captivating

A N Y T H I N G

dark past

She doesn't even know my name, but she stares at me sometime.

If you show all shell know all.

your dick size

your ex

You'll find a nice girl. After my last relationship ended in a big old fireball that left me with a kid and a lot of bad feelings, I was able to find simeone who I'll be spending 4 year with in december

your last town

a n y t h i n g

why do you think it's "ENIGMATIC"?

@Sir Harndes properly introduce yourself but try to not make it embarrassing or a scene. A small hello and start small talking about something that may interest her or has something to do with her. Like a compliment about her shirt or backpack.

Yeah

But she's mostly not alone

honestly?

best advice ever was

*"keep her talking about HERSELF*"

bitches will go on for H O U R S

Bruh you got this

M8 you will do it

@INNYGMATYK this

If I can land a girl while also telling her I have a kid on the way, I'm sure you can make more than do

Dont make it that way. If you can assimilate into the group you have a larger influence. If you can maintain a friendship with just her thats great, but the whole group? That shows that you're in it for them, and not yourself.

and that's how you get the P U C C I

(sry yall - ime intense)

Be selfless at first, ease yourself in and let them talk. Women like someone who can listen

And keep secrets

Or bitch about someone she dosent like. That'll score you points

@PanzerWrecker i didn't get it very well

What do you mean

About the group thing

I don't have friends in common

If you can befriend one, great. If you can befriend them all, then they trust you more. Be a part of the group.

Relationships like all good things take time.

Like a fine wine or cheese it takes patience, the right ingredients, slow and steady movements, and time

I married my highschool sweetheart cuz we had bb(hes amazing id litteraly do some scorched earth shit for him) but she was toxic and shit was not healthy. I spent like 2 years "alone" doing the tinder thing going to bars and while it was fun it wasnt lasting. At the end of the day i was truly alone.

@thedarkness05 top tier advice desu

Thats another thing, if anyone has any questions about ANYTHING hit me up. Because i had no friends for most of hs i spent my time researching things and watching documentaries.

Or any of us bro. We all in this together

Apes together strong

Then i just started talking with a girl from my hometown and we just talked for like a whole year. We built a lasting relationship without sex, without any of that other shit and now were very happy together. She might even be a boogaloobabe.

Remeber that

And if i don't know the answer i will research the fuck out of it

I don't even have the guts to talk to her alone

You just gotta go for ot

@Sir Harndes then is she the one?

With a whole group of girls? Sir harns dead

@wendiko we're sharing the same boat my dude. Glad its working out

Are you going after her based only on looks? Or common interest?

Who?

Looks. And heritage.

Yeah, strange

@PanzerWrecker i have something for you cuz my girl case is beyond fucked

Heritage?

She's very italian

As myself

Is that a reason to date someone?

Mama mia pizza pucci

No

Idk

Shes gorgeous

Italian girls.

Find someone who completes you, and that you complete.

If she has Italian family over her women specifically shell be a total gem at home.

Skin will wrinkle someday.

Mine was redheads. An itallian redhead. Oh what a mistake

My girl has part italian family and they are very into the old ways of family.

My family is italian

I know how it works haha

Bruh italian/mexican yum.

Im Italian and german. I know this stuff

But a friend of mine told me shes a very cool person to talk to

Ok

Fuck my girls a gem guys. I dont say that enough. Not to break my arm jacking myself off

You may say

"Boi, you have a friend in common, thats dope"

Bbbbut

I need to do this myself

I ain't depending on her

Aight, then strap up and do it goon. It'll work out

I get nervous

Gtg

We all do man.

We all do. But dont let it show. Roll in there like you own the place

And I still dont have a good reason to get into her group without being awkward

Like half of what confidence is is not showing that you're nervous

Dont matter if its awkward or not. Hop right in, tag in their convo, drop a funny anecdote and take it from there

Idk fam

I need a plan

Or

A good excuse

Make a pace plan lmao

Hell even working it out like that in your head could do wonders for ya

Huh?

Why though? If looks and heritage are all that's attracting you is it worth it? Would you boog with a gun just because it looks cool and is made by a company that you like? Or would you use something that functions how you need it to?

Have you fb stalked her

Humm, no? But, finding someone good looking is a start point

@wendiko hell I did

Its a good start, but is it where you want to finish?

Couldnt find her anywhere

Any personality flags?

Ah

@PanzerWrecker course not

Ig?

I want to know her

Talk to her

Then why pursue?

Have good moments

See if she's a good deal

Are you pursuing a friendship or relationship?

Relationship (possibly)

@wendiko she's sweet

That I know

Guys i think i need your help girl i like is fucked in feeling departament, at the beginning she hold hands with me, hugged me, there was one point when we almost kissed but we didn't do it, after that i think she got scared and stoped with any physical contact. We hang out often and we are typing all the time on fb, she told me she can't Fall in love right now she has abusive parents and her ex scared her badly but she sometime gives me hints that she might wants something more

well either she's right

or another non-confrontational irrational bitch is bullshitting you to bail

my (inebriatedasfuck) opinion?

drop and change vector.

@DAnteForneus dont focus on physical contact, focus on protecting her

If shes mentally damaged, physical touch could be a nono

And she said she likes men with attitude. Not something I can provide unfortunately

I mean, its obvious

That may be the worst thing for her rn

Yeah - sorry @DAnteForneus - i forgot to say
"*depends on how much time you wanna spend/invest*"

Just respect her boundaries

She doesn't really like being protected she want doesn't want to be realay on someone

if you have the time to learn them

Thats not what it means to protect

The guard doesn't farm for the village

Probe her

With questionss

Lol

@DAnteForneus all girls want to feel safe. This I know

Its in their genetic code.

As with ours to protect

Its how we evolved

Alrighty then

Gotta go

Sleep a little

Sometime ago we got high and she let me lay my head on her belly and she patted my head

See if things work out for me

Goodluck my man

And I hope I get a good opportunity

@Sir Harndes good luck,trust your instincts

Calm yourself, probe with questions observe data

@PanzerWrecker thanks for the tips, partner

As well as @wendiko

Thanks bud

Go to sleep

Nighty

@DAnteForneus best feeling tho amiritelads?

I don't think that touching is a essuse for her i think i need to keep it in her safe space

Thanks for distracting me guys.

@Sir Harndes night, King.

@Sir Harndes gute nacht

@PanzerWrecker I told you

we got u.

One of us

O N E

O F

U S

Night kings

I'm always around if you need anything. One of the "perks" of being on the graveyard shift

She will be at my place this weekend

We are going to Cook some shit and get high

So any tips how i can See if she still wants to be something more with me?

@DAnteForneus focus on being a good friend first. Dont rush it.

You cant rush a good stew

You could ask her. Sometimes blunt is best

Hard part is she doesn't really like blunt, she prefers to give small hints

And i can't missread some of this and this is kind of hard to get around

women like to play and give hints

whats wrong with bein blunt

That shit gets old real quick in relationships. I dont have time for hints and mixed signals, and you shouldnt either. Relationships need good communication, and hints dont cut it. Tell her how you feel, and ask her point blank. Specify you dont want hints and you'll take her answer at face value

Trust me. It dosent work out. I have stories and battlescars to prove it

The sad part is she know i like her

I told her

@DAnteForneusif she's about the small hint game

take subtlett

s u b t l e t y

it's hard to explain - but sometimes you can even use innocent converdation to do this

And she just wants time she told me she can't love anyone right now and this my work out later maybe

thats a tough situation

yeah

but if you edge in slow and quiet

keep your ear to the ground

Yeeaaah good night my dudes

and play the Initiative

you'll be fine

goodnighto

@PanzerWrecker night - sleep easy, King.