tell-us-about-your-problems

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2019-09-12 06:44:18 UTC

Do your thing.

2019-09-12 06:44:23 UTC

Did you talk to the lady

2019-09-12 06:44:31 UTC

Besides brogay

2019-09-12 06:44:40 UTC

I even took a photo of her. Im a fucking lose damn

2019-09-12 06:44:50 UTC

Errrm

2019-09-12 06:44:51 UTC

Boi.

2019-09-12 06:44:52 UTC

Nope

2019-09-12 06:44:58 UTC

Ok ok

2019-09-12 06:45:00 UTC

Listen

2019-09-12 06:45:02 UTC

Quick shot

2019-09-12 06:45:03 UTC

I could probably help with that @Sir Harndes, ive got no problem talking with women. And i know it may sound bs but if you recognize patterns you can understand them.

2019-09-12 06:45:10 UTC

Yes

2019-09-12 06:45:17 UTC

Take a look

2019-09-12 06:45:22 UTC

They are creatures of habit

2019-09-12 06:45:31 UTC

@PanzerWrecker you know what you're talking about.

2019-09-12 06:45:36 UTC

What does cancer feel like

2019-09-12 06:45:40 UTC

at least where wermens r concerned

2019-09-12 06:45:45 UTC

@wendikoshit dude

2019-09-12 06:45:47 UTC

bail on it

2019-09-12 06:45:50 UTC

turn left

2019-09-12 06:45:52 UTC

She got the πŸ…±οΈums

2019-09-12 06:45:56 UTC

it sucks.

2019-09-12 06:46:00 UTC

Men are at least accurate machines, women can be loose cannons.

2019-09-12 06:46:21 UTC

Like sharp random pains and lumps?

2019-09-12 06:46:28 UTC

Is that a prison or a high school? Kinda the same thing but ok

2019-09-12 06:46:32 UTC

Lmaooo

2019-09-12 06:46:44 UTC

Ngl, I thought it was a jail

2019-09-12 06:46:52 UTC

Every school in here looks like a prison

2019-09-12 06:46:56 UTC

Its a thing in here

2019-09-12 06:47:00 UTC

Dont mind it

2019-09-12 06:47:02 UTC

Chiraq

2019-09-12 06:47:09 UTC

And i know my ways around jails

2019-09-12 06:47:16 UTC

And no, thats no joke

2019-09-12 06:47:22 UTC

@wendiko i live 30 mins from the city

2019-09-12 06:47:28 UTC

@wendikoman. worse. DM me and I'll ramble.

2019-09-12 06:47:31 UTC

Depending on traffic

2019-09-12 06:47:34 UTC

Im sorry

2019-09-12 06:47:55 UTC

Shes 18. So no jail to me

2019-09-12 06:47:59 UTC

Yay

2019-09-12 06:48:19 UTC

Man just do it

2019-09-12 06:48:21 UTC

And as I said before, shes always with her friends

2019-09-12 06:48:25 UTC

And the sooner you do it

2019-09-12 06:48:32 UTC

The sooner yoy give her the pill

2019-09-12 06:48:43 UTC

Goons can you explain something to me? Why most of girls i know see me as great guy but not great enought to date them?

2019-09-12 06:48:59 UTC

@PanzerWrecker I can't predict woman

2019-09-12 06:49:06 UTC

Because they want to save you till they're done hoeing

2019-09-12 06:49:06 UTC

Qaiting for ideal conditions

2019-09-12 06:49:12 UTC

@DAnteForneus frirndzone so they can chase others

2019-09-12 06:49:19 UTC

Abort

2019-09-12 06:49:44 UTC

My perception

2019-09-12 06:49:51 UTC

As good as a deaf bat

2019-09-12 06:50:43 UTC

@Sir Harndes never predict

2019-09-12 06:50:46 UTC

just lead on.

2019-09-12 06:50:46 UTC

I was put in the friendzone a while back. The gal legit told me and i fucking quote "im saving you as a backup incase my other relationships dont work out"
Thats the last convo we had, last friendly one at that. And she wonders why men ghost her

2019-09-12 06:50:59 UTC

give a woman everything, and she's done with you.

2019-09-12 06:51:24 UTC

Leave them something to search for in you.

2019-09-12 06:51:42 UTC
2019-09-12 06:51:44 UTC

Something interesting, captivating

2019-09-12 06:52:09 UTC

A N Y T H I N G

2019-09-12 06:52:13 UTC

dark past

2019-09-12 06:52:14 UTC

She doesn't even know my name, but she stares at me sometime.

2019-09-12 06:52:16 UTC

If you show all shell know all.

2019-09-12 06:52:16 UTC

your dick size

2019-09-12 06:52:18 UTC

your ex

2019-09-12 06:52:20 UTC

You'll find a nice girl. After my last relationship ended in a big old fireball that left me with a kid and a lot of bad feelings, I was able to find simeone who I'll be spending 4 year with in december

2019-09-12 06:52:20 UTC

your last town

2019-09-12 06:52:24 UTC

a n y t h i n g

2019-09-12 06:52:32 UTC

why do you think it's "ENIGMATIC"?

2019-09-12 06:53:54 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/574290286340079626/621599352737103872/image0-1.jpg

2019-09-12 06:54:14 UTC

@Sir Harndes properly introduce yourself but try to not make it embarrassing or a scene. A small hello and start small talking about something that may interest her or has something to do with her. Like a compliment about her shirt or backpack.

2019-09-12 06:54:39 UTC

Yeah

2019-09-12 06:54:47 UTC

But she's mostly not alone

2019-09-12 06:54:52 UTC

honestly?

2019-09-12 06:54:56 UTC

best advice ever was

2019-09-12 06:55:05 UTC

*"keep her talking about HERSELF*"

2019-09-12 06:55:11 UTC

bitches will go on for H O U R S

2019-09-12 06:55:11 UTC

Bruh you got this

2019-09-12 06:55:22 UTC

M8 you will do it

2019-09-12 06:55:24 UTC
2019-09-12 06:56:03 UTC

If I can land a girl while also telling her I have a kid on the way, I'm sure you can make more than do

2019-09-12 06:56:06 UTC

Dont make it that way. If you can assimilate into the group you have a larger influence. If you can maintain a friendship with just her thats great, but the whole group? That shows that you're in it for them, and not yourself.

2019-09-12 06:56:28 UTC

and that's how you get the P U C C I

2019-09-12 06:56:35 UTC

(sry yall - ime intense)

2019-09-12 06:56:49 UTC

Be selfless at first, ease yourself in and let them talk. Women like someone who can listen

2019-09-12 06:56:56 UTC

And keep secrets

2019-09-12 06:57:43 UTC

Or bitch about someone she dosent like. That'll score you points

2019-09-12 06:57:43 UTC

@PanzerWrecker i didn't get it very well

2019-09-12 06:58:02 UTC

What do you mean

2019-09-12 06:58:11 UTC

About the group thing

2019-09-12 06:58:20 UTC

I don't have friends in common

2019-09-12 06:58:53 UTC

If you can befriend one, great. If you can befriend them all, then they trust you more. Be a part of the group.

2019-09-12 06:59:27 UTC

Relationships like all good things take time.

2019-09-12 07:00:07 UTC

Like a fine wine or cheese it takes patience, the right ingredients, slow and steady movements, and time

2019-09-12 07:00:58 UTC

I married my highschool sweetheart cuz we had bb(hes amazing id litteraly do some scorched earth shit for him) but she was toxic and shit was not healthy. I spent like 2 years "alone" doing the tinder thing going to bars and while it was fun it wasnt lasting. At the end of the day i was truly alone.

2019-09-12 07:01:09 UTC

@thedarkness05 top tier advice desu

2019-09-12 07:01:21 UTC

Thats another thing, if anyone has any questions about ANYTHING hit me up. Because i had no friends for most of hs i spent my time researching things and watching documentaries.

2019-09-12 07:01:52 UTC

Or any of us bro. We all in this together

2019-09-12 07:02:06 UTC

Apes together strong

2019-09-12 07:02:11 UTC

Then i just started talking with a girl from my hometown and we just talked for like a whole year. We built a lasting relationship without sex, without any of that other shit and now were very happy together. She might even be a boogaloobabe.

2019-09-12 07:02:15 UTC

Remeber that

2019-09-12 07:02:16 UTC

And if i don't know the answer i will research the fuck out of it

2019-09-12 07:02:22 UTC

I don't even have the guts to talk to her alone

2019-09-12 07:02:44 UTC

You just gotta go for ot

2019-09-12 07:02:46 UTC

@Sir Harndes then is she the one?

2019-09-12 07:02:56 UTC

With a whole group of girls? Sir harns dead

2019-09-12 07:03:04 UTC

@wendiko we're sharing the same boat my dude. Glad its working out

2019-09-12 07:03:08 UTC

Are you going after her based only on looks? Or common interest?

2019-09-12 07:03:11 UTC

Who?

2019-09-12 07:03:28 UTC

Looks. And heritage.

2019-09-12 07:03:32 UTC

Yeah, strange

2019-09-12 07:03:33 UTC

@PanzerWrecker i have something for you cuz my girl case is beyond fucked

2019-09-12 07:03:39 UTC

Heritage?

2019-09-12 07:03:42 UTC

She's very italian

2019-09-12 07:03:47 UTC

As myself

2019-09-12 07:03:54 UTC

Is that a reason to date someone?

2019-09-12 07:03:55 UTC

Mama mia pizza pucci

2019-09-12 07:03:58 UTC

No

2019-09-12 07:04:01 UTC

Idk

2019-09-12 07:04:10 UTC

Shes gorgeous

2019-09-12 07:04:16 UTC

Italian girls.

2019-09-12 07:04:26 UTC

Find someone who completes you, and that you complete.

2019-09-12 07:04:34 UTC

If she has Italian family over her women specifically shell be a total gem at home.

2019-09-12 07:04:42 UTC

Skin will wrinkle someday.

2019-09-12 07:04:43 UTC

Mine was redheads. An itallian redhead. Oh what a mistake

2019-09-12 07:04:58 UTC

My girl has part italian family and they are very into the old ways of family.

2019-09-12 07:05:14 UTC

My family is italian

2019-09-12 07:05:22 UTC

I know how it works haha

2019-09-12 07:05:26 UTC

Bruh italian/mexican yum.

2019-09-12 07:05:33 UTC

Im Italian and german. I know this stuff

2019-09-12 07:05:59 UTC

But a friend of mine told me shes a very cool person to talk to

2019-09-12 07:06:00 UTC

Ok

2019-09-12 07:06:02 UTC

Fuck my girls a gem guys. I dont say that enough. Not to break my arm jacking myself off

2019-09-12 07:06:03 UTC

You may say

2019-09-12 07:06:19 UTC

"Boi, you have a friend in common, thats dope"

2019-09-12 07:06:25 UTC

Bbbbut

2019-09-12 07:06:39 UTC

I need to do this myself

2019-09-12 07:06:49 UTC

I ain't depending on her

2019-09-12 07:07:13 UTC

Aight, then strap up and do it goon. It'll work out

2019-09-12 07:07:25 UTC

I get nervous

2019-09-12 07:07:31 UTC

Gtg

2019-09-12 07:07:32 UTC

We all do man.

2019-09-12 07:07:55 UTC

We all do. But dont let it show. Roll in there like you own the place

2019-09-12 07:08:21 UTC

And I still dont have a good reason to get into her group without being awkward

2019-09-12 07:08:29 UTC

Like half of what confidence is is not showing that you're nervous

2019-09-12 07:09:03 UTC

Dont matter if its awkward or not. Hop right in, tag in their convo, drop a funny anecdote and take it from there

2019-09-12 07:09:31 UTC

Idk fam

2019-09-12 07:09:42 UTC

I need a plan

2019-09-12 07:09:44 UTC

Or

2019-09-12 07:09:47 UTC

A good excuse

2019-09-12 07:09:58 UTC

Make a pace plan lmao

2019-09-12 07:10:11 UTC

Hell even working it out like that in your head could do wonders for ya

2019-09-12 07:11:31 UTC

Huh?

2019-09-12 07:14:11 UTC

Why though? If looks and heritage are all that's attracting you is it worth it? Would you boog with a gun just because it looks cool and is made by a company that you like? Or would you use something that functions how you need it to?

2019-09-12 07:14:39 UTC

Have you fb stalked her

2019-09-12 07:15:12 UTC

Humm, no? But, finding someone good looking is a start point

2019-09-12 07:15:21 UTC

@wendiko hell I did

2019-09-12 07:15:33 UTC

Its a good start, but is it where you want to finish?

2019-09-12 07:15:35 UTC

Couldnt find her anywhere

2019-09-12 07:15:37 UTC

Any personality flags?

2019-09-12 07:15:41 UTC

Ah

2019-09-12 07:15:42 UTC

@PanzerWrecker course not

2019-09-12 07:15:46 UTC

Ig?

2019-09-12 07:15:48 UTC

I want to know her

2019-09-12 07:15:51 UTC

Talk to her

2019-09-12 07:15:53 UTC

Then why pursue?

2019-09-12 07:15:54 UTC

Have good moments

2019-09-12 07:16:06 UTC

See if she's a good deal

2019-09-12 07:16:13 UTC

Are you pursuing a friendship or relationship?

2019-09-12 07:16:27 UTC

Relationship (possibly)

2019-09-12 07:16:57 UTC

@wendiko she's sweet

2019-09-12 07:17:00 UTC

That I know

2019-09-12 07:17:07 UTC

Guys i think i need your help girl i like is fucked in feeling departament, at the beginning she hold hands with me, hugged me, there was one point when we almost kissed but we didn't do it, after that i think she got scared and stoped with any physical contact. We hang out often and we are typing all the time on fb, she told me she can't Fall in love right now she has abusive parents and her ex scared her badly but she sometime gives me hints that she might wants something more

2019-09-12 07:17:33 UTC

well either she's right

2019-09-12 07:17:49 UTC

or another non-confrontational irrational bitch is bullshitting you to bail

2019-09-12 07:18:04 UTC

my (inebriatedasfuck) opinion?

drop and change vector.

2019-09-12 07:18:12 UTC

@DAnteForneus dont focus on physical contact, focus on protecting her

2019-09-12 07:18:47 UTC

If shes mentally damaged, physical touch could be a nono

2019-09-12 07:19:11 UTC

And she said she likes men with attitude. Not something I can provide unfortunately

2019-09-12 07:19:16 UTC

I mean, its obvious

2019-09-12 07:19:17 UTC

That may be the worst thing for her rn

2019-09-12 07:19:23 UTC

Yeah - sorry @DAnteForneus - i forgot to say
"*depends on how much time you wanna spend/invest*"

2019-09-12 07:19:46 UTC

Just respect her boundaries

2019-09-12 07:19:48 UTC

She doesn't really like being protected she want doesn't want to be realay on someone

2019-09-12 07:19:56 UTC

if you have the time to learn them

2019-09-12 07:20:17 UTC

Thats not what it means to protect

2019-09-12 07:20:33 UTC

The guard doesn't farm for the village

2019-09-12 07:20:37 UTC

Probe her

2019-09-12 07:20:43 UTC

With questionss

2019-09-12 07:20:45 UTC

Lol

2019-09-12 07:21:02 UTC

@DAnteForneus all girls want to feel safe. This I know

2019-09-12 07:21:18 UTC

Its in their genetic code.

2019-09-12 07:21:27 UTC

As with ours to protect

2019-09-12 07:21:36 UTC

Its how we evolved

2019-09-12 07:21:50 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/574290286340079626/621606383787442176/FB_IMG_1567999292846.jpg

2019-09-12 07:21:53 UTC

Alrighty then

2019-09-12 07:21:59 UTC

Gotta go

2019-09-12 07:22:03 UTC

Sleep a little

2019-09-12 07:22:09 UTC

Sometime ago we got high and she let me lay my head on her belly and she patted my head

2019-09-12 07:22:14 UTC

See if things work out for me

2019-09-12 07:22:27 UTC

Goodluck my man

2019-09-12 07:22:33 UTC

And I hope I get a good opportunity

2019-09-12 07:22:38 UTC

@Sir Harndes good luck,trust your instincts

2019-09-12 07:22:41 UTC

Calm yourself, probe with questions observe data

2019-09-12 07:22:55 UTC

@PanzerWrecker thanks for the tips, partner

2019-09-12 07:23:09 UTC

As well as @wendiko

2019-09-12 07:23:12 UTC

Thanks bud

2019-09-12 07:23:14 UTC

Go to sleep

2019-09-12 07:23:43 UTC

Nighty

2019-09-12 07:23:59 UTC

@DAnteForneus best feeling tho amiritelads?

2019-09-12 07:24:16 UTC

I don't think that touching is a essuse for her i think i need to keep it in her safe space

2019-09-12 07:24:24 UTC

Thanks for distracting me guys.

2019-09-12 07:24:24 UTC

@Sir Harndes night, King.

2019-09-12 07:24:36 UTC

@Sir Harndes gute nacht

2019-09-12 07:24:39 UTC

@PanzerWrecker I told you

2019-09-12 07:24:42 UTC

we got u.

2019-09-12 07:24:47 UTC

One of us

2019-09-12 07:25:06 UTC

O N E

2019-09-12 07:25:15 UTC

O F

2019-09-12 07:25:16 UTC

U S

2019-09-12 07:26:11 UTC

Night kings

2019-09-12 07:26:45 UTC

I'm always around if you need anything. One of the "perks" of being on the graveyard shift

2019-09-12 07:27:21 UTC

She will be at my place this weekend

2019-09-12 07:27:52 UTC

We are going to Cook some shit and get high

2019-09-12 07:28:57 UTC

So any tips how i can See if she still wants to be something more with me?

2019-09-12 07:29:30 UTC

@DAnteForneus focus on being a good friend first. Dont rush it.

2019-09-12 07:29:39 UTC

You cant rush a good stew

2019-09-12 07:30:00 UTC

You could ask her. Sometimes blunt is best

2019-09-12 07:31:51 UTC

Hard part is she doesn't really like blunt, she prefers to give small hints

2019-09-12 07:32:37 UTC

And i can't missread some of this and this is kind of hard to get around

2019-09-12 07:32:39 UTC

women like to play and give hints

2019-09-12 07:32:46 UTC

whats wrong with bein blunt

2019-09-12 07:34:07 UTC

That shit gets old real quick in relationships. I dont have time for hints and mixed signals, and you shouldnt either. Relationships need good communication, and hints dont cut it. Tell her how you feel, and ask her point blank. Specify you dont want hints and you'll take her answer at face value

2019-09-12 07:34:47 UTC

Trust me. It dosent work out. I have stories and battlescars to prove it

2019-09-12 07:35:04 UTC

The sad part is she know i like her

2019-09-12 07:35:07 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/574290286340079626/621609727381733376/20190912_023453.jpg

2019-09-12 07:35:30 UTC

I told her

2019-09-12 07:35:47 UTC

@DAnteForneusif she's about the small hint game

2019-09-12 07:35:53 UTC

take subtlett

2019-09-12 07:35:57 UTC

s u b t l e t y

2019-09-12 07:36:19 UTC

it's hard to explain - but sometimes you can even use innocent converdation to do this

2019-09-12 07:36:38 UTC

And she just wants time she told me she can't love anyone right now and this my work out later maybe

2019-09-12 07:37:06 UTC

thats a tough situation

2019-09-12 07:37:09 UTC

yeah

2019-09-12 07:37:18 UTC

but if you edge in slow and quiet

2019-09-12 07:37:23 UTC

keep your ear to the ground

2019-09-12 07:37:27 UTC

Yeeaaah good night my dudes

2019-09-12 07:37:28 UTC

and play the Initiative

2019-09-12 07:37:32 UTC

you'll be fine

2019-09-12 07:37:35 UTC

goodnighto

2019-09-12 07:37:44 UTC

@PanzerWrecker night - sleep easy, King.

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