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Do your thing.
Did you talk to the lady
I even took a photo of her. Im a fucking lose damn
I could probably help with that @Sir Harndes, ive got no problem talking with women. And i know it may sound bs but if you recognize patterns you can understand them.
Take a look
They are creatures of habit
What does cancer feel like
at least where wermens r concerned
bail on it
She got the 🅱️ums
Men are at least accurate machines, women can be loose cannons.
Like sharp random pains and lumps?
Is that a prison or a high school? Kinda the same thing but ok
Ngl, I thought it was a jail
Every school in here looks like a prison
Its a thing in here
Dont mind it
And i know my ways around jails
And no, thats no joke
Depending on traffic
Shes 18. So no jail to me
Man just do it
And as I said before, shes always with her friends
And the sooner you do it
The sooner yoy give her the pill
Goons can you explain something to me? Why most of girls i know see me as great guy but not great enought to date them?
Because they want to save you till they're done hoeing
Qaiting for ideal conditions
As good as a deaf bat
just lead on.
I was put in the friendzone a while back. The gal legit told me and i fucking quote "im saving you as a backup incase my other relationships dont work out"
Thats the last convo we had, last friendly one at that. And she wonders why men ghost her
give a woman everything, and she's done with you.
Leave them something to search for in you.
Something interesting, captivating
A N Y T H I N G
She doesn't even know my name, but she stares at me sometime.
If you show all shell know all.
your dick size
You'll find a nice girl. After my last relationship ended in a big old fireball that left me with a kid and a lot of bad feelings, I was able to find simeone who I'll be spending 4 year with in december
your last town
a n y t h i n g
why do you think it's "ENIGMATIC"?
@Sir Harndes properly introduce yourself but try to not make it embarrassing or a scene. A small hello and start small talking about something that may interest her or has something to do with her. Like a compliment about her shirt or backpack.
But she's mostly not alone
best advice ever was
*"keep her talking about HERSELF*"
bitches will go on for H O U R S
Bruh you got this
M8 you will do it
If I can land a girl while also telling her I have a kid on the way, I'm sure you can make more than do
Dont make it that way. If you can assimilate into the group you have a larger influence. If you can maintain a friendship with just her thats great, but the whole group? That shows that you're in it for them, and not yourself.
and that's how you get the P U C C I
(sry yall - ime intense)
Be selfless at first, ease yourself in and let them talk. Women like someone who can listen
And keep secrets
Or bitch about someone she dosent like. That'll score you points
What do you mean
About the group thing
I don't have friends in common
If you can befriend one, great. If you can befriend them all, then they trust you more. Be a part of the group.
Relationships like all good things take time.
Like a fine wine or cheese it takes patience, the right ingredients, slow and steady movements, and time
I married my highschool sweetheart cuz we had bb(hes amazing id litteraly do some scorched earth shit for him) but she was toxic and shit was not healthy. I spent like 2 years "alone" doing the tinder thing going to bars and while it was fun it wasnt lasting. At the end of the day i was truly alone.
Thats another thing, if anyone has any questions about ANYTHING hit me up. Because i had no friends for most of hs i spent my time researching things and watching documentaries.
Or any of us bro. We all in this together
Apes together strong
Then i just started talking with a girl from my hometown and we just talked for like a whole year. We built a lasting relationship without sex, without any of that other shit and now were very happy together. She might even be a boogaloobabe.
And if i don't know the answer i will research the fuck out of it
I don't even have the guts to talk to her alone
You just gotta go for ot
With a whole group of girls? Sir harns dead
@wendiko we're sharing the same boat my dude. Glad its working out
Are you going after her based only on looks? Or common interest?
Looks. And heritage.
@PanzerWrecker i have something for you cuz my girl case is beyond fucked
She's very italian
Is that a reason to date someone?
Mama mia pizza pucci
Find someone who completes you, and that you complete.
If she has Italian family over her women specifically shell be a total gem at home.
Skin will wrinkle someday.
Mine was redheads. An itallian redhead. Oh what a mistake
My girl has part italian family and they are very into the old ways of family.
My family is italian
I know how it works haha
Bruh italian/mexican yum.
Im Italian and german. I know this stuff
But a friend of mine told me shes a very cool person to talk to
Fuck my girls a gem guys. I dont say that enough. Not to break my arm jacking myself off
You may say
"Boi, you have a friend in common, thats dope"
I need to do this myself
I ain't depending on her
Aight, then strap up and do it goon. It'll work out
I get nervous
We all do man.
We all do. But dont let it show. Roll in there like you own the place
And I still dont have a good reason to get into her group without being awkward
Like half of what confidence is is not showing that you're nervous
Dont matter if its awkward or not. Hop right in, tag in their convo, drop a funny anecdote and take it from there
I need a plan
A good excuse
Make a pace plan lmao
Hell even working it out like that in your head could do wonders for ya
Why though? If looks and heritage are all that's attracting you is it worth it? Would you boog with a gun just because it looks cool and is made by a company that you like? Or would you use something that functions how you need it to?
Have you fb stalked her
Humm, no? But, finding someone good looking is a start point
Its a good start, but is it where you want to finish?
Couldnt find her anywhere
Any personality flags?
I want to know her
Talk to her
Then why pursue?
Have good moments
See if she's a good deal
Are you pursuing a friendship or relationship?
That I know
Guys i think i need your help girl i like is fucked in feeling departament, at the beginning she hold hands with me, hugged me, there was one point when we almost kissed but we didn't do it, after that i think she got scared and stoped with any physical contact. We hang out often and we are typing all the time on fb, she told me she can't Fall in love right now she has abusive parents and her ex scared her badly but she sometime gives me hints that she might wants something more
well either she's right
or another non-confrontational irrational bitch is bullshitting you to bail
my (inebriatedasfuck) opinion?
drop and change vector.
@DAnteForneus dont focus on physical contact, focus on protecting her
If shes mentally damaged, physical touch could be a nono
And she said she likes men with attitude. Not something I can provide unfortunately
I mean, its obvious
That may be the worst thing for her rn
Yeah - sorry @DAnteForneus - i forgot to say
"*depends on how much time you wanna spend/invest*"
Just respect her boundaries
She doesn't really like being protected she want doesn't want to be realay on someone
if you have the time to learn them
Thats not what it means to protect
The guard doesn't farm for the village
Its in their genetic code.
As with ours to protect
Its how we evolved
Sleep a little
Sometime ago we got high and she let me lay my head on her belly and she patted my head
See if things work out for me
Goodluck my man
And I hope I get a good opportunity
Calm yourself, probe with questions observe data
Go to sleep
I don't think that touching is a essuse for her i think i need to keep it in her safe space
Thanks for distracting me guys.
we got u.
One of us
O N E
I'm always around if you need anything. One of the "perks" of being on the graveyard shift
She will be at my place this weekend
We are going to Cook some shit and get high
So any tips how i can See if she still wants to be something more with me?
@DAnteForneus focus on being a good friend first. Dont rush it.
You cant rush a good stew
You could ask her. Sometimes blunt is best
Hard part is she doesn't really like blunt, she prefers to give small hints
And i can't missread some of this and this is kind of hard to get around
women like to play and give hints
whats wrong with bein blunt
That shit gets old real quick in relationships. I dont have time for hints and mixed signals, and you shouldnt either. Relationships need good communication, and hints dont cut it. Tell her how you feel, and ask her point blank. Specify you dont want hints and you'll take her answer at face value
Trust me. It dosent work out. I have stories and battlescars to prove it
The sad part is she know i like her
I told her
s u b t l e t y
it's hard to explain - but sometimes you can even use innocent converdation to do this
And she just wants time she told me she can't love anyone right now and this my work out later maybe
thats a tough situation
but if you edge in slow and quiet
keep your ear to the ground
Yeeaaah good night my dudes
and play the Initiative
you'll be fine