He's young

not an excuse

im 23

we indeed gave him real advice. even me

There was lots of good patient advice

I gave solid advice like two days ago when it was just me and Sam.

my mom did drugs. i dont sit here and talk about it constantly

I was there

@Deleted User When he first addressed it a few weeks ago you and I both along with a few others gave him actionable items. Look into charities, gofundme, suing the mother, call insurance, contact gov for possible welfare, literally anything. I even suggested joining the military with a medical waiver but nothing seemed to matter. I hope he calls in tonight.

and people offered to chat in DM also

Hhh rven offered him to come on the show. gave him lots of advice

Exactly.

Exactly why there will never be a real brotherhood

@Deleted User He didn't seem to be owning the problem, which I understand because he is acting on fear/rage/sadness right now. He's essentially homeless. However, at the end of the day he needs to get an actionable plan.

@machtyn thats right!

Brotherhood demands that your brother stand up with you. Not be dragged along!

i think the offer to chat in a DM is pretty good. i don't know what more you can expect from a group of dudes

MGTOW is not a brotherhood. MGTOW does not save lives save yourself!!!!

@Deleted User I don't think MGTOW is a brotherhood though... it's a philosophy stating don't marry/cohabitate.

@Deleted User your enabling him at this point. he has to move forward. we gave him plenty of advice

inaccurate Muffle. but I'll let that pass

I am not enabling

Mgtow can feel like a brotherhood when we gather like this and chat

I think brotherhood is important whether mgtow is... But he was not being a brother

@Deleted User you can lead a horse to water. you cant make it drink

he was given real advice and then started his passive aggresive stuff. mgtow for me doesn't mean coddling boys

MGTOW is about going YOUR MINE THEIR own way.

@Deleted User He vented, gave his life story, asked for advice, we all gave advice, then he repeated the cycle. That's my only issue with it.

If you want to be brothers, fine. But there is no WE in MGTOW.

@machtyn exactly

So why are we in here?

@Deleted User to share dank memes

WE are here as INDIVIDUALS

@Deleted User just to suffer?

Indeed, mgtow is a phyllosophy, but this server quite acts as brotherhood, imo

lol

and anime babes

and debate stuff sometimes

debate... indeed

share info

@Deleted User There SHOULD be no expectations. This is simply a neutral ground to discuss no marriage/cohabitation and SUPPORT HHH.

and shitpost

dont forget that

I'm glad you guys have your whole life figured out

i dont

Dont you start

im working on it

^ yep

and when one individual tries to band us together to sympathize endlessly, we as a community need to remind them that they need to get THEIR shit together.

We will naturally form bonds and a small brotherhood however you can't have a true brotherhood that can truly mobilize and save Sam online. We'd send money and he'd spend it on weed/alcohol and burn himself out or he could commit suicide or whatever he decides to do. Online isn't great for a real brotherhood.

I dont @Deleted User

@Deleted User you obviously did not scroll up and read everything

Advice was given.

@Deleted User I definitely do not have my life together and you were the most empathetic one because you've lived the most life than anyone else here.

lived the most life??

thats a weird way of saying hes older... if thats what you mean

Yeah, I am lowkey saying @Deleted User is old 😄

I did Blaq.....there was some good advice...most of it was to the likes of "grow up, work hard and voila, everything will work out"

Thats master debatable

I mean... he did lol

``` I did Blaq.....there was some good advice...most of it was to the likes of "grow up, work hard and voila, everything will work out" ```
I told him to check out JPeterson twice

which video?

@Deleted User incorrect. I told him that i could relate. I had a single mom etc

@Deleted User look we have explained it to you. if you cant see what was happening. thats on you

he only has a gazillion

@Deleted User Ok. What is your advice to him?

It started out with solid advice. When Sam blatantly ignored it, it became a collective “look dude enough, man the fuck up”.

@Deleted User i tried to level with him. He refused all advice and wanted to keep spewing

he just gave us a pity party instead of asking about him, @Deleted User

@Deleted User Did you add him? Sam Amari#5315

It was too long @Deleted User he would not stop

It’s been solid advice for a week

okay fair enough

No one came here to save lives

seemed really angry to me

We all have or own shit

How long we were supposed to let him dominate chat and cater to him? Coddle him?

i'll help people out, but you have to want to help yourself

You do? I've been on here only a short time.......everyone seems to know everything

I dont

It wasnt even progressing anywhere it was stagnant

@Deleted User He unloaded his burdens last week right? I support that and I listened. It just went around in circles and no ACTION was taken on his part. No talking will save this situation. He needs to act but dismissed most ideas.

okay...I'll drop it.

Well, we all have problems.... And it seems that sam was just attentionwhoring

Another round

Well, I disagree. I do think his problems were pretty intense but he didn't digest the information we gave and decided to debate/argue but that too is understandable because he's stuck in fear/panic.

However, @Deleted User let's truly analyze this...

He took it far past “any ideas?”

@Deleted User if you're TRULY down and out, you're not online on discord...

That’s when it was obvious

You're yelling and screaming for help. You're desperate.

Then the passive aggressive, ugh.. come on man

Yeahhh. @MufflePuff that was too much for me

I'm either learning something or programming when I'm on here

@Rockets I am usually have cerebral intercourse. Ya know what I am saying?

Sidebar, DSDolls look the most promising. But FL Launch is the truth.

@Rockets What are your top video games?

strange times.. i'm curious to know where most people are but i don't want to be calling for a dox 😂 I'm above the northern wall.

im going with wmdoll

they have the best looking stuff for me